Questions.
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Thread Topic: Questions.
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Do I need counseling?
How do I change as a person?
Do my moods fluctuate?
Why should I try to live? We're going to die anyways? -
No you don't need professional counselling. Talking to your family or friends can heal you much better.
Believe in yourself for a change.
I can't say about your mood fluctuations. But if they do so, try something creative such as sketching.
You should live because that is the beauty of life. Life provides you opportunities where you can self-actualise and realise your full potential. -
Talking to my family would be like talking to a wall. It would respond or understand, because walls can't respond or understand anything. They're walls. I need help from different people.
No. I did that and look how that turned out! :)
Okay.
Thanks. -
All you need is some one to poor your feelings out to, you just need some one trustworthy.
People don't change, however you can always limit your negative factors, or just learn how to tame them. Changing completely isn't a good idea.
Ye, your moods do tend to differ a lot. But you have been good at controlling it.
Cause if you die -.- there's going to be hell. And you are one of my role models with your amazing art. That would be like...
I don't wanna think about that. -
I guess.
Why isn't it a good idea?
Noooo. You should go into my TBH thread. :P
That's a lie. People wouldn't even notice, people would finally be happy. -
If you think it's necessary, then you can try counseling.
You can't change everything about you, but you can try to dominate the negatives and glaze over any pessimisticness (if that's even a word). Don't change completely, as Fatima said. You are you and you need to let the awesome traits you have shine out to the world. You have great qualities in you. They may be hidden, but they are there. And it's your job to discover them and let them be shown to the world.
You have some mood swings now and then (u can be sunny and happy but in a matter of 5 seconds you can be thunderstorms). But every1 does once in a while. No big deal. You do suppress them and it doesn't happen that often.
You should try to live because you have opportunities that not everyone has. Some people who have terminal cancer wish to have decades of life left to live like you do. Yes, at some point, we'll die, but try to live life to the fullest.
...And that does not mean eating 3 bowls of cereal instead of 1. -
Well, I've had counseling before for minor ptsd (like really minor, it's no big deal) and if you really think you need it, I'd go for it. Just remember that it costs some, and that if it's going to work you're going to need to work with whoever is counseling you.
Well, if you want to change as a person, you'll first have to identify what you want to change as a person. What part of your attitude? Once you recognize what you want to change, take slow baby steps. Set daily goals, and remember that you won't be able to change over night. If you want to change as a person, you're going to have to work hard for it, and remember that these things take time (as cliche as that sounds)
When I've talked to you, you've always been kind and nice to talk to, and you've never really went from the nice girl to the b----y kind, but I do suppose that you seem irritated or like you're loathing yourself at other time too.
The point of life isn't living, but the point of life isn't dying, either. You're living, and should continue living, because people need you to. You are everyone's future, just like you are your own future. The choice you make today dictates what your future will be, and who you become in the future, whither it be good or bad, dictates the future of everyone else. Children will look at you one day, whither it be your grave or your old body, and they'll either say "I wish I was a hero like them" or they'll say "Should I take my life like them?" As selfish as this seems, if you're not living for yourself, then you're living for someone else, and if you're not living for someone else then you're dying for your self. Remember, you dictate the future. -
I don't think that family or friends are the best way to heal because they are typically not psychologists and think that telling you "things will be okay" will help.
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