spanking kids
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Thread Topic: spanking kids
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A form of discipline or crule lesson?
Some people believe spanking a child is the best way to discipline them. Others believe that it teaches a child that when some one does something wrong they must be hurt -
And there thinking about bring it back ..to the school systems.
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Okay, I don't believe they should bring it back to schools. Sure, spanking the good kids will get them to stop being bad, but they're good kids. They aren't the ones causing the problem.
The bad kids are the ones who would get disciplined and being spanked only hurts for a few minutes and would result in anger. They'll get over it and continue to be bad.
Spanking doesn't solve any problem, it only causes more. People should raise their children in a way that they can be reprimanded (whether just a simple yelling or hopefully in a way that the child will understand through a sit-down talk) and then the children will stop. -
I was spanked as a kid, I hated it and honestly it didn't do much but piss me off >.>
Eh, I wouldn't do it if I had children. I wouldn't recommend it either. I mean it's one thing to spank a kid another to beat them..but I feel like some(actually a lot of >.>) parent's wouldn't get that there's a fine line between the two and go way too far.
That's my opinion.__. -
I think Jade hit the nail right on the head. It really doesn't do any good and probably just ends up being counterproductive more often than not.
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I think there should be less yelling and more asking questions. Instead of beating the crap out of your children, ask them why they did what they did, and work things out with them. Tell them why they weren't supposed to do that, what the effects are, etc., etc.
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People think 'spanking' is beating your children up. It isn't. It's ok to spank someone just as long as it doesn't bruise the kid at all.
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As long as the kid doesn't have to be taken to hospital, spanking is actually necessary for discipline.
Some kids won't learn unless they are beaten up, like me XD -
I just...don't see how hitting your child's butt solves anything....
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It makes them fear doing something so they won't make the mistake again and they know its wrong.
If you just use words they will just be like "Blah nothing will happen to me, I will just get a warning" and do wrong things all over again -
So kinda like how Christianity works? Not a big fan of this method :/
I just think they should actually understand why they're not supposed to do it, instead of them not doing it because they're scared. -
^^^ good point good point, I see you shall be a politician
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But they know that if they do it again, there will be no consequences for them because you didn't really punish them, you only told them why they shouldn't do it. That doesn't really stop them.
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That's why you should teach them the real consequences. Tell them why you don't want them doing that, instead of just scaring them to get them to stop. Give them actual reasons why they shouldn't do that, instead of just "Because I'll hit your butt." Or "Because I said so", I hate that one XD
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