spanking kids
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Thread Topic: spanking kids
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Spanking is a controversial subject because of how it can be miscontrued as child abuse
The thing is, it can be necessary for diciplinary reasons because it puts out the consequences of what happens when you do something that's not okay.
I am not advocating child abuse, but I will propose that it really depends on the parent and how they go about it.
If I were to incorporate 'spanking' into my diciplinary techniques, I'd do that, and then I'd sit down with them and discuss what just happened, and why that happened and make sure they understand what they did was not okay, and that there are ways to prevent it from happening again.
People who use that method need ensure their child understood why they were spanked, otherwise it was all futile and needless pain. -
I agree. Although I don't think spanking is necessary before talking with them. I feel like all that teaches them is to solve your problems, you must hit people. More specifically their butts.
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Honestly it really varies from child to child and parent to parent. If it works and isn't going to screw up the kid, then it works.
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Klilly NewbieI as raised hearing "spare the rod, spoil the child"... in some families maybe a spanking or two "with a thin belt or a hand" may be neccessary.. but some parents whoop or spank there child for unneccessary reasons.. i dont think spanking a child shows discipline.. when kids are young they tend to do what they see elders do.. and once hitting something or someone is in their head its hard to get it out because if you spank them or a sibling they are thinking i must do that too.. and another reason "spanking" doesnt show discipline is because more than likely the child is going to cry because it hurts but it just pisses them off and they do it again because they feel revengent*i dont think thats a word* because they are mad at you for spanking them in the first place... some kids act the way they do because of the parenting lifestyle their parents choose to give them.. i think parents should first look at how they are raising their kids and try to figure things out..
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I know I won't be spanking my children because I feel way too guilty later but at times it is necessary
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I just think children should learn "Don't do this because " instead of "Don't do this because you'll get hit."
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It's highly unlikely I'll ever have to spank my kids since they'd probably be too scared of me :I
that is, if I ever have any. -
I was hit when I was younger and it did nothing but make me angry and afraid. I thought my mum was a monster and I thought I was hopeless, ugly etc.
I would spank my child if they ran across the road etc. I'd later talk to them about it and end the discussion in a cuddle. -
If my parents ever tried to cuddle me, I would run out of the house O.o
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