excuse me while i tell you guys something.
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Thread Topic: excuse me while i tell you guys something.
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you know me...i love to put my two cent's worth in...
and uh...i guess the thing is you need to decide if your gonna dream with her, or set down your foot and call it reality...
that's the basic prob with net relationships dude :\ -
i wont be able to be there for her. and i want whats best for her, and thats a life where she isnt with someone who cant defend her. i personally feel that she needs to let go of me. i want her to have the best life possible, and i came to the realization that thats not going to happen in the relationship we're in now. i dont want to sound heartless and cruel... but she is ruining so many opportunities this way.
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lol, well...that's what makes romeo and Juliet a tragedy...
if that's your only problem then respect her enough to make her own descition...(i cannot remember how to spell that freeakin word) on whats best possible, and opportunistic for her... -
:/ should i at least pitch that idea to her?
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if you think you should.
but you have to keep in mind the cons as well...
it will probably set your mind at ease and also make her THINK about the possibilities...
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she really means it. if you tell her about this (which sounds like a break up prep)
then she'll be REALLY um...i'm going to say hurt/scorned for lack of a better phrase -
no matter how much it hurts, i would rather her hate me and move on, than waste her life texting me. she is a beautiful and smart and funny person. there is so much more she could do with her life. i just happen to be nice to her when she was at a weak moment. i know she can do better than me, and i want her to go out there and find it. i know she can.
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.......dude...once again, i REALLY mean it when i say...as long as YOU are not TOTALLY lying to her in a way that would prevent you two from EVER really being together, and YOU personally don't want it to end...
let her decide if she personally wants it to end...it's a respect and trust thing dude..... trust me. -
i need time to think...
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lol alright dude....
0.o wait, ARE you totally lying? not that i would hold it against you i REAALLY have nothing against lying to me...but uh?? -
what do you mean, totally lying? i really do care for her, and enough to put her future ahead of our present.
it may not be my place to do so, but.... AHH! i care too much sometimes. -
i mean like..your not a 30 year old freak right?? lol nm it was more of a joke...
sokay dude...we all take things to a lil seriously and care more than we should......that's why were here. :)
and somthing i just thought of...she REALLY does care about you...i was nice to her to dude...she fell in love with you :]
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:/ i know.
all i was trying to do was be nice to her. i got caught up im the lights and glow of 'finding love'. i lost track of my senses. it may be selfish but i would feel better knowing that there was someone there with her who could protect her and care for her the way i cant. i have said before that i wish i was there with her, but wishing isnt going to make that fantasy happen. she needs to stop dating someone across the country and look right infront of her.
it may not be my place to make those decisions but i gave my opinions and i stick by them -
honestly i feel the same way dude...
your COMPLETELY right...it would be VERY much better for her to...you know..
but the thing is she wont.
i know this because...:\ i know.
i know why she sleeps aroudn so much, i know why she has panic attacks...i know why she talks about emo, and why she's the sort of peace keeper mother type here... i really do know...VERY well...
i know for fact that your the closest thing to guardian angle she has. like i said...she's in love with the idea of having love. your her idk...her sanctuary...why do you think she quit gtq?? she would have kept coming if she wanted to...she just preferred to have you to herself...because honestly your the thing that keeps her from shriveling up into a unending nightmare of torture, rape, and solitude...
i REALLY want her to be happy...and the best i can do is tell you that she would NOT be able to (better or not) find love and comfort and protection, like you give her, in the "real world"
because as you've argued...this IS the real world for people like us :\ -
Omg so true and beautiful, I may actually tear up :(
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thanks ana-kin
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