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It's no use explaining myself, because y'all won't accept my apology
This quote sticks out to me. I think that your logic here is flawed. It seems to come from a victim mentality. Do you think you're the victim in this situation? That's not an insult, it's a genuine question. The way you've replied to everyone thus far seems to indicate to me that you have deep-rooted anxieties that no one cares about your opinions and everyone is just out to get you. Why do you feel that way?
You seem to feel defeated before the battle has even begun and more than that, you seem to take every sign of an disagreement as a battle to either be won or lost. I want to let you know that discussions are not wars. There is no winning or losing. It's about understanding, and no one can understand you if you refuse to explain yourself. -
Anyways I want to make it clear that I am not here to crucify you. I just want to help you understand where others might be coming from so you can maybe find some neutral ground or even an agreement.
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What should i explain then? Haven't i said something? I know that [deleted]
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Nothing at this very moment, but the next time someone asks you a question or you think they're misinterpreting you, take a moment to reflect on the situation and try to give an genuine reply instead of defaulting to "it's not worth explaining." You're only hurting yourself by doing that
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Okay, thank you.
My view on life is that no one cares. That's how everyone is to me. -
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It's great that you're able to recognize that in yourself.
I'd encourage you to really think about why you feel that way, and to try to think about things that do matter to you and things you do care about. -
Oops, i didn't mean to say that
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Please delete the 8th post on this thread.
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I deleted it. There's nothing wrong with showing care I hope you know but I understand if you don't want everyone seeing that.
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Thank you.
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