Not this again.
- Locked due to inactivity on Oct 6, '22 3:54am
Thread Topic: Not this again.
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A friend of mine mentioned the1forypu came back and is trying to twist what happened prior to him leaving as " I said things people didn't agree with because im christian"
So I wanted to give context as to what happened with me lmao-
The1foryou came into two of my threads and spammed these multiple times, and then continued to post ot until mod intervention:
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Oh my god. Fifidee I did not realize he did that to you! That's horrible. Maybe it is best if he stays away.
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I dont want to get involved with the situation as a whole since I consider myself as an inactive user, and dont want to plunge back into drama, but seeing the situation misinterpret as an "anti-religious rage" makes me extremely frustrated, since it was literally harassment. Unprompted harassment.
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You're alright, Alex. You didn't know the whole situation, which is what Bvian is counting on. He's literally twisting the situation.
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There was also that whole racist and homophobic rant we had to delete
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^^^^
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Well, Fifidee, I just want you to be comfortable when, and if ,you come back and become more active. I honestly thought it might be okay if he's changed but now...
Idk. Maybe he should stay off site for a little longer... -
Also, I'd like to just clarify this again.
The last argument had nothing to do with religion, and everything to do with Transphobia, homophobia and racism.
I was raised Catholic, by the way. Since Bvian is convinced I'm anti-religious. My paternal side are irish catholic, and my maternal side are protestant. I have full respect to the religion.
So I don't know why he continues to claim that we have an issue because he's religious. -
Anyway, with that I'm going to log back out.
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I was raised Christian. I know the rules and basis. Homosexuality is accepted sometimes. Same as being trans.
Even though now my religion is set on the Greek and Roman gods, I do know that if you are a Christian, Catholic, or Protestant, and you are saved and homosexual or trans, God still accepts you. You can still get saved.
@Bread - I didn't see, or don't remember, that rant. But I see now that maybe Bvian should stay away. -
Bumping this to make sure everyone sees it
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Please, don't try to brush this under the rug as an issue of non-civil debate, or differing opinions. This user is racist, homophpbic and transphobic. The proof is that he openly said the n word, the screenshot I posted here, and as Bread mentioned the deleted homophobic and racist rant. Which multiple users saw, and I'm certain the mods have evidence of.
This isn't something you can just overlook. If you were not affected by what he did, you can't accept his apology. His apology was him shifting the focus and making up a false reason for leaving.
It's a ploy to distract from actual evidence, and from the people he hurt who never got an apology.
Notice how in that thread he continues to bring up religion.
When he initially attacked me that day, it was in a hunger games simulator thread. It was not in anyway religious, or even anything he could claim riled him up or set him off because he felt it was an attack on his beliefs. -
He did look down on me for being trans and pansexual. You have a point Fifidee. He attacked almost every homosexual or trans person on here.
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It is conpletley possibile to educate yourself and change your views, but it's important to apologise sincerely, and not to blame those who were hurt by what you said for feeling hurt. Even if it was a misunderstanding, if your words hurt someone you have to understand, that it's not wrong for them to feel hurt.
It's also important to remember that even if someone takes all the steps, and sincerely apologies, people that they hurt in the past do not have to forgive them. So never shame someone for not forgiving a person who hurt them. Your experience with someone can be different, they can be super nice to you, but that doesn't make what they did any less real.
This isn't even solely about The1foryou. It's just important for everyone to remember, nobody is entitled to forgiveness.
This thread also isn't intended for insulting, or ganging up on the1foryou, I made it to give those who weren't online, handy joined yet or don't remember what happened the full story, and tk protect myself and other people who were hurt from being betrayed as bad people, liars or anti-religious bigots. -
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