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Also what will Ana be? Their grandmother? Will I just leave out the step and say she is my mom so my sibling doesn’t feel odd
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This whole thing is starting to sound very Alabama and I don’t like it
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3 adults live in this house, it used to be 4 earlier this year, but then Nathaniel happened so it’s just three
Those three are
Me, Ana my step mom, and cat girl my fiancé -
There is one child, that is my brother and son of my father and Ana making him a half sibling
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There will be another future child from cat girl and I can’t disclose who the dad is because that’s not my place
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= my future step child that will never know until they’re 18 that I’m not their bio parent
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They obviously will know I’m not cis both my brother and them will know, but they just won’t know their dad I hope that makes sense
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So in order to be able to afford this decent house we will have to share the house with Ana
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See thinking about this stresses me out so f---ing much my step brother will be the uncle of my child but will be around their age and will grow up together as siblings
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And we can’t move because like I said we can’t afford it
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See this is why bringing children into this world shouldn’t be allowed as easily as it is
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There should be parenting courses and certain wages we need to have in order to have children
BuT thEn lOwEr cLasS wOnt bE abLe tO havE aNy
Yeah that’s the point guys what the f--- is a 21 year old with $29 in their bank account going to offer their kids? -
I’m so petrified that what we bring to the table isn’t enough for them to have a good upbringing
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And I know one user is going to come in and say well JaE yOuRe pRooF tHat mOneY dOesNt gIvE yOu a gOoD cHilDHoOd
You’re right but there was always food on the table and a roof I don’t know if I can offer that always that should never be something we have to worry about and I know I keep saying i me my but it’s because I’m the one that brings in more money into this household -
It’s still f---ing s--- because I work minimum wage but still more than they bring in so I am the one that spends more they only pay utilities
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