What are your worse fears?
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Thread Topic: What are your worse fears?
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losing loved ones, even though i am for the most part, it’s difficult for me to be independent. losing friends, family, and other relationships highly affects my mental health.
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Getting too close to anyone. I get screwed over 98%.
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^ relatable
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I have no idea what I'm afraid of.
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I don´t know.
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being ignored/forgotten/abandoned/just alone
and spiders :( -
So, yeah. I guess I'm not afraid of anything.
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Neither am I
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I don't know what it means to be afraid of fear itself... but for some reason I have the feeling that that's what I'm afraid of most. Also when it comes to the Fight Flight or Freeze thing, you'll always see me run away... which is ironic because I consider myself to be daring and brave...
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*Bees/Hornets/Wasps/Anything with a stinger/Needles
Like I refuse to go outside sometimes because I'm so afraid of being stung by bees and stuff. I get really anxious going to the doctors, and I ask my grandma a million times if I need to get a shot. She still needs to hold my hand otherwise I might cry.
*Being abandoned/Ending up all alone
This ties into childhood stuff, but I spend hours a day panicking about it. I'm that person who thinks that if you don't respond you're going to never talk to me. But on the other side, I'm afraid that if I come off too clingy you're gonna not want to be my friend and end our friendship.
*People Being Afraid of Me
I think this also ties into childhood stuff, but if I never get negative feedback, I panic and think you're afraid of telling me the negative. And if you're afraid of me, that means I'm a bad person. If I only hear the positive, I consider it a very bad sign that something is wrong with how I'm presenting myself. It makes me think I'm being abusive. It also means you may leave me, and it all goes back to that I guess.
*Nobody has/will ever like/love me/Never good enough to be someone's 'best friend' or 'lover'/Worhlessness
More childhood stuff, but I always feel like I'm never good enough for anyone. I guess you could say 'a jack of many, but an ace of none' is my one of my biggest fears. If I'm not anyone's #1, then I'm nothing. I've never been the best at anything in my friend groups. Never been the funniest, never been the smartest, never been most athletic, never been the most creative, certainly never the prettiest, never been...anything, really. I'm just not good at anything, and why would someone like someone like that? I feel like I'm the 'only if I'm bored' person. That makes me feel like I'm not worthy of anything, which brings me to really bad places.
This is all I can think of at the top of my head, I have more, but I don't think typing all of that would be good in one sitting. -
Mine is spiders and
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Getting hit by a softball and spider
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I'm seeing spiders as a common fear here.
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Are you making fun of my fear?:(
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Of course not! I'm merely pointing out a lot of you have something in common.
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