very cool thread name
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True.
Exactly!!!
It used to be just me and him against the world. Now It is just me while he talks about the other girls...My friend said that some guys are like addicts when it comes to girls. They just have to have more and more.I've talked to him about how I was afraid I'd be replaced and he said he loves me and would always choose me. -
Fr tho, if he would choose you over anyone else, then why have them in the first place? Maybe hes confused idk but this just doesn't feel right to me.
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I don't see him in person.He lives in another state. The girl he made that account for lives in a different state than him. She said she's the better girlfriend because she sent nudes.
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Online relationship?
It never worked out for me tbh. ;_; how does sending nudes make someone a better gf? Unless its sexual love. -
Mhmm...
The plan is to move to the state he lives in when I graduate high school next year. Because they are normal. She makes comments about his D and sends nudes and is more of an actual girlfriend.I'm just.....Here.I don't send nudes,or send videos of me masturbating. I don't even masturbate! -
Ah, I see.
Are you okay with him being w another girl? If it's okay then cooool.
Good girl :3 I dont masturbate too *high five* -
mhmm
I don't know how I feel. Before when it was just us I was happy. I thought he was happy. And now...Now it seems like all he uses me for is someone he can talk about all the other girls with. He says that even though he is dating these other girls he hasn't lost any love for me and will still choose me. I'm just scared that when I move there and we are together in person he'll still be doing this... -
There you go. If a relationship doesnt make you feel right, then you should think about it. Before you two started dating, was it made clear that it was gonna be an open relationship?
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Thatd suck if you meet him irl and if he continues like this. Maybe stand up and tell him how its making you uncomfortable and that you dont feel right. Ask him to stop dating other girls and if he agrees then it's great. If he doesn't, then yo know what to do.
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I tried talking about it to him. He promised he wouldn't forget me and date a different girl. When we started dating it was a closed relationship. It was just me and him. Then out of the blue he said I could do whatever I wanted as long as it was a female.I said he could do what he wanted with a guy. He is straight, so he wouldn't do anything. I never did anything though because it felt wrong to me to be doing something with someone I don't love. The only thing we even remotely agreed on was the other could do something with someone of the same gender. And now...He wants to do things with those of the opposite gender.
I'd hope he stop but I don't know. I don't want to outright be like "No you can't do any of this you are mine" and sound possessive and make him miserable and go behind my back about it. -
He sounds like my past self tbh. If he really is like my old self then I'd suggest you break up with him.
See? Why does he want someone else? You know what, it's fine to sometimes feel less love towards your other half but you gotta hold on. It's fine if he wants to do stuff with other girls temporarily... but if he acts on them then it just means that he doesnt really mean when he says that he wouldn't replace you. I suck at relationships but unless you're okay with it, he shouldn't have other girlfriends besides you. -
What was your old self like?
I don't know. I don't know what to do. The mere thought of breaking up with him or of him breaking up with me makes my chest hurt so bad I can't breathe. -
Definitely not like I'm proud of.. used to waste time making girlfriends. :( dont judge me I was a misdirected insecure kid.
Breaking up is the last resort honestly. He can understand that you don't really appreciate what he is doing and maybe he will stop. I don't support polyamorous relationships but maybe you can start liking it?
Seems like you love him a lot. -
I could never judge you. One, we all make mistakes. Two, I never judge. Three, you are too amazing to make me ever think bad of you.
I don't want to end up miserable because I'm always having to share him with other girlfriends...
I do, I really do. -
srry to barge in, but it sounds shady that he can y’all to other girls, but you can’t talk to guys.
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