Come, and Join Me
- Locked by Faceless Knight on Aug 1, '20 12:10amReason: Owner's request
Thread Topic: Come, and Join Me
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      I've never given advice to a person who has the same messy issues as I do, so...
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      Well, I don't know if she has or hasn't, so that's why I'm asking.
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      My advice doesn't work for me because I'm not able to do what they can, or again, it doesn't apply.
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      Sorry. So, what are your problems? What's wrong?
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      I have bad depression, people take advantage of me, I can't seem to please anyone no matter how hard I try, I've lost who I am, trying to do what others want, I get stuck spiraling in negative thought, I don't like myself, can't convince myself I SHOULD like myself, I'm always being betrayed by everyone I thought cared including my family...
 
 The list goes on.
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      I don't know how to help with the depression.
 When people take advantage of me or betray me, I ask why, then ask more and more questions until they obviuosly feel bad about what they did.
 Take some time for yourself. Do what YOU want, not what others want.
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      But I have to do what others want because everyone who makes me do it is an "elder" in the house. My family never gives me a choice, and if they do, they guilt-trip me to do what they want, and if I still don't agree, then they take away my choice and make me do it anyway.
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      Have you told them your thoughts on what they do?
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      Yes, and they ground me and disagree for telling them.
 
 So, how could anybody relate to that?! I know absolutely no one who'd even believe this is an actual thing, let alone someone who's experienced this!
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      I believe you that it's happening. But I don't know how I can help.
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      That's what the problem is. I can't find anyone who could help with that. The worst thing about it is: it's perfectly legal. HOW COULD THAT BE LEGAL?
 
 I'll take it the way I've been doing: live, forget yesterday, live, forget today.
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      ughh just 3 more to 7-00! im caching up to u tat! lmao
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      I don't care, Jacob.
 
 I don't know. I'im really sorry I can't help.
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      *I'm
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      am my grammer gettin better now?
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