My official thread
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Thread Topic: My official thread
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Wait, people said that if it was you in place of her nobody would miss you?
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I feel bad for making you sit through my problems
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No. My head
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Sorry if I'm making you uncomfortable
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We can talk about something else
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Oh no, I am really glad to be there for a friend.
Okay, I think I understand your problem. I wish I could be there to help you.
But.. you said her death was a part of the reason for your depression? What're the other things? Is there anyone bullying you? Neglecting you? -
My mom had me at 17 years old. But she and my dad were drug abusers and never really cared for us(siblings). By the time I was 8, my parents lost custody of us and my grandparents took care of us. My father was in and out of jail, always promising he would quit. He never did. My mother is around 4 years clean, but she isn't normal. She lies, breaks promises, steals, manipulates, and so on. For most of my life, she has had an on and off relationship with a man named Robby. He doesn't deserve privacy. He was horrible to my mom. He's scream at her, slap her, punch her ect. One time he almost killed her. She was covered in stitches. My mom always told me about how awful he was, and told me about all of her problems. She didn't need to say much, because he screamed and hit her in front of me. She was miserable. But...I never called the cops because I was afraid. I was afraid he would hurt me or mom. I also don't have good memories with police. Because of my dad, they would illegally pull is over. I remember watching him get handcuffed from our the house window. But back to my mom. She always told me to always not anger Robby, or else I might be attacked too. My mother is toxic. But every time I try to get her out of my life, she threatens me. One time, my mom went into a coma for a week due to an attempted suicide. She always said the reason she did it was because she didnt have us in her life and that if I leave her she will actually do it. I have cut her and my father out of my life. But sometimes she texts me and tried to contact me. My family isn't rich. We haven't own a house since I was in kindergarten. My grandma stopped working because she got breast cancer, but she survived. My grandfather stopped working because he has early onset Alzheimer's. He is currently in stages 5\6 of seven. He doesn't know who I am. It just hurts to see your father figure not remember anything. But because of that, we are on a disability plan, which is where we get our money to get by.
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Sorry that took me a little bit
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Oh man, I feel sorry for you. Why doesn't your mom break ties off with Robby? You don't deserve such a life. Your parents and grandparents love you; you should try talking with your mother that you can't handle it anymore. If Robbie shows up again and hurts your mom or anyone close to you, don't hesitate. Call the cops. Or if you can, beat the s--- out of him.
And hey, because both of your parents were drug abusers, please don't get involved in drugs.
If this s--- continues and your parents don't seem to care, tell that to the cops too and get out of your house. Nobody deserves such neglect. -
I...don't know. Fear? Shes f---ing crazy tbh
I learned that lesson. Lmao
I don't live with my parents. My father is in prison and my mother is with Robby. I live with my grandparents.
I'm just kinda done with talking to either of them. Ever. Like the last thing my dad said to me was "You are my hero" because I convinced his brother to bail him out of jail. Not even "I love you". They only see me as their puppet. I'm even considering legally changing my last name to my grandparents last name.
Don't feel bad though. People have it worse.
Anything you want to rant about? -
My mom was the same way. Cutting someone out of your life is hard. My mom was a drug addict and is an alcoholic. I cut her out of my life when I was 6. She didn't have a whole lot to do with me until..3 years ago when I was 21. And even then the communication is like every few months. She's gotten a little bit better since the baby was born but still. Don't let your mom guilt trip you into keeping her in your life. Being apart of someone's life is earned and not just handed out, she needs to earn her place in your life. If you continue to let her in without her showing you she deserves it, you are in for a bad time. She will drag you down and into her lifestyle. You'll end up repeating her mistakes because she'll make you feel like the only way to escape your problems is by doing what she does.
I'm sorry to hear about your grandpa. Watching someone slowly slip away in front of you can be difficult to handle, but it will get better. I'm sure he knows who you are, but his brain can't place you, you know? -
I'm sorry about your mother....
I wish. My grandpa can't even play go fish correctly anymore. -
Well that's nice.
Nope, nothing to rant.
Hey, I gotta go. Bye. -
Bye. Nice seeing you. Sorry for dragging you into my family s---
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It doesn't bother me. The only life she's ruining is here. And that's my point. If you don't let her in, she can't ruin your life. I've learned to let her go because she was so toxic that it was ruining my life and I didn't need that. She can do what she wants, it doesn't affect me anymore. Once you let go of it, you'll be better off. Always try to find the positive in life and you'll never be disappointed with the outcome.
Sometimes, you just gotta make yourself believe it in order to be ok with it. I made myself believe that my grandpa was just tired and ready to home (heaven if you believe in that) when he passed away, and that when I lost my first baby it was because he needed someone to tell stories to. I also had to convince myself that my dad was ready to go when he died last year and that was the reason I was able to have this baby, he traded his life for hers. It's what keeps me going.
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