people change.
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Thread Topic: people change.
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people change. be prepared for it. if any of you want life advice from me, then that's what it is. life is nothing more than a cruel joke a lot of times, and that's thanks to people surrounding us. i'm not saying that if one day you wake up and feel as if things aren't the same as they used to be with people, that it's not okay to be sad. but, you shouldn't stay sad. do what they did. grow up. mature. move on with your life. it'll hurt like hell for sure. but one day, anyone who loses you are the ones who will be sorry and want you back.
from there, it'll fall into your hands as to what to do next.
why am i saying this you ask? where did it come from? life.
right now my life is s---. i feel as if my friendships are drifting apart. and let me tell you, it hurts. no one cares what's bothering me anymore, no one even asks. they don't care. all i've ever done for them was give them support. i don't receive it back. so for now, they aren't getting anything from me. i'm not telling them anything bothering me when i seem off. nothing.
why do this out of any other possible solution? because i want them to feel what i feel. -
Oof wish yu the best bud hopefully things get better
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I believe things will get better for you. Yeah life has its ups and downs.. Some bad things happen, but you never know what's waiting around the corner. :)
I sound like the narrator to Canadian a children's show. -
* A Canadian children's show
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This is the second time I've heard this in the past two weeks, and while the circumstances were both awful, I really needed to hear this. I always blame myself when other people leave, or change, or pretend to change but show their true colors at the last moment... I'm in this constant state of, "It's your fault. You did that. You made them leave." But then I remember that there are people who apologized for what they did. There are people who stayed with me and they made the effort to be my friend despite all odds. And I'm so glad that they're here. I really am. I'm pretty bad at moving on, but it's easier to move on with the people who have my back.
For what it's worth, how little I know you and all, you don't deserve that. I've had this exact same feeling for years. I think the one thing that makes it even worse is when someone you never talk to is willing to ask if you're okay, but the people you cared for don't do a thing. A few years ago I had a mental breakdown in public, and the only person who asked me if I was okay was someone who never spoke to me. That was it. My friends, who were right beside me as I hid in the corner of the classroom and cried while shaking like a manic, ignored me for the remainder of the day. And we had all of the same classes. They could have said anything but they didn't.
I'm no best friend of yours, but if you ever want to vent, don't hesitate to seek me out. Please. It is never okay to have to deal with s--- like that alone. I wish I could give physical support but alas. States, miles apart. -
Thanks everyone â¤
Same goes to you Darko. We follow each other on Insta so dm me if you ever want to
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