Private chatting thread
- Locked by Br0wnieBunny on Aug 6, '16 8:18pmReason: I'm going to be making a new personal thread and will no longer be posting in this one. I don't want to risk trolls being able to bump this thread for spam.
Thread Topic: Private chatting thread
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Yeah. Thank you.
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No problem.
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Not trying to be a Negative Nancy here but I'm slightly distressed at how some are acting. I've already talked about Kiersten, but there's also Aries who suddenly just matured like not even 24 hours ago? I told her that she had a chance to redeem herself and she went from "Brownie I just wanna talk to my friends" to "Hello. I have perfect grammar and I just woke up and felt like doing so. Is this okay with you guys?" like what
The fact that people try to act mature like that after like not even a day ago virtually stabbing people or something like that kinda bothers me. I know I'm being hypocritical, but I'm saying this because I don't want others to be like me/follow in my footsteps. Sure, I do use some good vocabulary and am quite popular here, but when you think about it, am I really a good influence? I try the best I can, but if you just think about it. A mentally unstable, sensitive, paranoid young lady who possibly has depression and morphs herself into a being that everybody will like because she's gotten used to praise and admiration? Is that the person you want to be? No? Then don't do what I do. Just don't change yourself so that others will like you, it'll help you in the long run. -
I'm either being a Pumpkin or an anime character for Halloween, probably.
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or maybe they just feel like speaking in perfect grammar terms
stop overthinking chill -
I would never expect someone to change so quickly, but I suppose I am being a little uptight.
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This is slightly accurate with Chrysanthemum because she's a daddy's girl, is planning to enroll at a really good college, she's a straight A student, she's fluent in Creole French, and can be known to be secretly defiant every once in a while, since her parents think she's absolutely perfect but she just hides it from them.
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It's not my fault that my mood changes quite quickly.
I've got issues, my dear. Quite frankly I can't control it as well, but I try to.
I've tried so hard to become better and now i'm being bashed for that?
I guess it's no use trying to fix myself, If everyone's going to criticize me for that. -
Not bashing you. I'm just a little worried for you.
And please don't start up with that. You can change yourself, you have friends and nobody's criticizing you here. If anything, you won't be criticized for being yourself, you know? Instead you'll be praised for finally breaking out of your shell and finding who you truly are.
My shell is still really hard, though. It might take a couple years. -
I just don't appreciate people CONSTANTLY reminding me of who I was. I've changed, but nobody really cares.
I'm trying so hard not to push others away or intimidate them, but I can't hold myself back if I'm going to be remembered as a retarded, ignorant, arrogant little brat.
Nobody's praised me for atleast trying, so what's the point?
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I haven't been praised either for trying. For months, I've been seen as retarded, ignorant and arrogant while I was trying to fix myself. If anything, I'm still viewed as a poser or a people-pleaser.
Look, all you have to do is be yourself. Whether or not you fit in with the older users shouldn't entirely matter. Sure, you're going to be categorized as "not an older user", but I was too. Everyone here was. Just take your time and embrace who you really are. Not who you want people to think you are.
It's just called life. There are people who aren't going to respect you until you earn that respect, and there's something called patience that needs to be practiced here. I only took the shortcut and I ruined who I am. I don't know who I actually am anymore. Other than Madison. I'm Madison. But who am I inside? I don't know, and that's because I tried to suck up to people. Don't do that. -
I'm just not well at being myself. I'm viewed as just another little brat, and it's really hard for me to break out of my shell. I used to be a happy, carefree girl, but now I'm just a fake. I've rarely come out of my shell, and I feel as if I'm slipping back in. If I can't get atleast a simple praise, I'm gonna fall back into old habits.
I'm sick and tired of all you people who seem so much better, even though there are those who are struggling.
I'm gonna go back to being the little arrogant brat I was, since nobody likes the new me. -
Hi deedee
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You seemed pretty comfortable with yourself the last time that you were here. But whatever. You go ahead and you ignore me. I tried helping you, but I guess you don't wanna listen. I guess I'll just see what happens with you then.
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I'm sorry to interrupt.)
Aries, I like the new you. Brownie is right, I wasn't here back then but I have heard things when I was here but not too much.
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