I need your opinion on this. It's about the guy I like.
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Thread Topic: I need your opinion on this. It's about the guy I like.
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Well, I first met him in June for summer gym. It wasn't the first time that I've seen him, I saw him a couple times before that too. He's in the grade below mine and I guess he's kinda a player because he's dated lots of girls. But he's so nice and sweet too.
Anyways, in summer gym, he liked my friend (we'll call her C) and she liked him back. And then for some reason, I started liking him. Ever since June, I've liked him. And in summer gym, we go to pools and we ice skate and hike and stuff like that. So we were at one of the pools, and then he had a soccer ball. (he plays soccer). And then some other people came and we started passing the ball in a circle. C wasn't there that day. And then I don't know how it came up, but we were talking about how shorter people were faster than taller people. And so we had to prove this. Then me and this other tall guy were gonna race and my crush was the person on the end who held out his arms to see who one. And so we raced and I was going really fast and I accidentally smacked the s--- out of his hand. And he said "Gosh that hurts!" and I kept on saying "I'm so sorry." over and over again. And then I touched his hand.
Later that day, (we're still playing with the soccer ball), I accidentally kicked it over this 10 foot high fence (yeah, I'm just that good :P), and so I say "I got it." and started running to the gap in the fence. Then, my crush says, "No, it's okay I got it." and starts runnin there too. And so it was like we were having a race (he won). And then we were trying to find the soccer ball. And he said "God damn, we're did you kick it too?" and I said "I don't know." and then I spotted it, so o slowly started creeping towards while he wasn't looking. And then he spotted it too, so we both kinda did a little half sprint to it (he won again). And he got to it first and so then we turned around to go back and we were talking about something that I forget and then he lightly throws the soccer ball at my back. Little did I know, he started to not like C.
I didn't see him anywhere else, except for the 2 weeks of summer gym, over the summer.
School came, and so did soccer. The guys soccer team didn't have practice for a week or something. And one of my best friends is one the girls soccer team. And so I went there to support her or something, and I'm sitting alone on the bleachers because I enjoy being alone (and no one would sit by me). And then my crush shows up and says "Why are you always sitting by yourself?" and I said "Why not?" he said "Because you kinda look retarded." and I said "Thanks." and then he comes up and sits next to me and says "There, now you don't look as retarded." and then we started laughing a little. And so we talked for a while (by the way, are legs and arms are slightly touching), and then it's half time and he says, "Come on. You're gonna go socialize with other people." and I said, "But I don't want to." and he said, "Well, you're gonna like it." and then pulls me up by my arm and we started walking to our other friends. And when we get there, he says, "There. Now socialize. Meet new people." and I said, "But I already know these people. That's ____, ____, and ____." and then he says, "Who's that?" and points to a guy that ive never seen before. And I just shrug. We sit down and talk to them. And hen I had to leave so I said bye to everyone.
I have one class with him, and that's in Health, where I student work for the teacher, and he actually has the class.
Some days, after health, we would walk out of class together. He no longer likes C. And I always wait for my friend because that's the only time I see her. And so me and my crush were walking out together and I stopped in the hallway so I can wait for my friend. (oh, and we all have lunch next). And then he said, "Are you coming?" and I said, "No. I gotta wait for ____. You can go ahead though." and then he looked a little bit sad. The next day, I got out of class a little bit earlier than him, so I was waiting in the hallway, and then he comes up behind me and starts pushing me down the hallway. And I said, "But I gotta wait for ____." and he said, "Nope, not today. Screw ____." and then we both started laughing.
Last week, C gave me his number because he told her that he wanted me to text him. So, we were texting and talking about spelling. And then the next day, we texted for about 7 hours, talking about nothing, not once saying "What's up?", and the only time we took a break. Was when he had to go to soccer practice.
Last night/ yesterday was homecoming. He went with someone else (let's call her L) because he said that everyone was pressuring him into asking her, and she likes him, but he doesn't know if he likes her back.
So, they played a slow song, and everyone around started slow dancing with someone. And I just kinda stood here awkwardly while my friends started dancing and then my crush didn't have anyone to dance with either. And so then my friends started calling him over so we could dance, and as he was about to put his hands on my hips, L came over, grabbed his hands, put them on her hips, and they started dancing. And then he looked at me as if to say "sorry." and I had to play it off like I was stretching. And then they played a faster song and L turned around and they started to um, yeah. Hopefully, you get it (dirty dancing). And then afterwards, my group went bowling, and texted him saying, "I just realized something: I suck at bowling." and he texted back saying "Haha it's ok." and then I sent him another text, and he never responded.
Just so you guys know, me and L are friends, and no, she doesn't know that I like him.
So, if you think that he likes me, please say why. (also, during summer gym, we wet laser tagging and me and him kept on hitting each other until we finally called a truce and teamed up. We lost horribly.) :P. -
hm tough one hm.
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Yes, yes it is. Just put what you think (and then say why because I don't like it when people say an answer and then not explain it).
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You should ask him to go to the mall or something (as friends). If he likes you that much, you should be able to "charm" him into breaking up with L.
If he asks you if that's what you're doing, casually said no and tell him that you haven't gotten to spend a lot of time with him because of _____(school/soccer/etc).
Flirt with him a little, but not to much. So it doesn't look like you're actually doing what you're doing.
If you're too shy to go alone, tell your friends and see if they can ask their crushes or guy friends to go to the mall too.
I know its a bit complicated, but it seems like the only shot you got. So just go for it. -
Oh, I forgot something. So when he was in 8th grade (last year), he liked L, but she didn't like him. Now, she likes him, but he doesn't know if he likes her. And that's how he was pressurized into asking her to homecoming. So, they aren't going out or anything.
@Sage I would say that I would try that, but I don't really go to the mall with my friends or anything. We don't really hang out either. So, I can't do that :\. -
Don't you have the guy's number?
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Yeah. I already texted him today, and he only replied once. :\.
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Well, i think he likes you, but he also likes the other girl. I mean, you did say hes a player. And it kinda sounded like he was flirting with you
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@Cori yeah. But he's not mean, which throws him off the whole "player" thing because most of them are. It's just that I think the longest relationship that he had was like a month or two. I don't know, it's just confusing.
I'll be able to give you guys more information tomorrow because I'm sitting with C at lunch tomorrow and he sits across from her, and I'm gonna steal his spot :P. -
That's a tough situation. I would suggest going for a run together or playing soccer with him. Both of these are easy and are in no way awkward. You'll be entertained the whole time and can talk as much or as little as you like.
He seams to like you. Maybe he hasn't realised it yet and just sees you as a very good friend but eventially he should. It looks like both of you have a wonderful connection.
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What ange said is a good idea. Invite him to practice soccer with you or something. Soccer is always good. Haha, arnt soccer players amazing? XD
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@Ange okay thanks. I might actually do that, when I have spare time :P.
@Cori yes, yes they are. :P. -
Okay, so lunch was probably the best lunch that I've had ever. I actually talked a lot more than what I did at my usual spot. Well, me and my crush started debating on whether sharks or lions are more dangerous. I was saying that the sharks were more dangerous and C was saying that lions were more dangerous. And we were trying to get him to see which one was more dangerous and then C finally said that sharks are more scary and kinda dropped out of the conversation while me and him were still debating this and I was giving him scenarios. And one of them, I think I said something like, "If you were on a beach, right on the water, and a shark came out of the water to eat you, how would you react to that?" and he said, "I'd be dead." and then I changed it to, "You're on the beach right on the water, and behind you is a lion and in the water is a shark, which one would you rather face?" and he said, "I'd jump in a hot air balloon and go up." and I said, "No, you can't do that because the lion shredded it." he said, "Then I'd get away while the lion is doing that." and I said, "No, because you were distracted by the shark jumping out of the water." and we were laughing so hard that it was difficult to say the words. And then he also gave me some jolly ranchers.
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Aw, I'm texting him and he said that I made his day :D. (because I sat at the table). I stole his spot and so he sat across from me and I was sitting next to this guy. And he texted me saying that I should put my hand in his (the guy who I was sitting next too. We'll call him S) pocket and make him really awkward. And I said no and he said that I have to since he can't do it because I'm sitting there. And then I said, "Well, I probably made S's day because you weren't harassing him." and he said, "Yep. And you also made mine. Sharks and lions." I guess I'm just a naturally funny person :P.
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DOA: That's really great that both of you are getting on so well. It seems to me that the conversations are smooth and easy to flow with confidence.
Good luck in the future! :D
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