I hate being single
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Thread Topic: I hate being single
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Like..but at the same time I don't want a girlfriend or boyfriend.I dunno..its weird.I dunno I just hate like...being left out or whatever.Like even when I'm with friends or whatever I'm that guy whose always like...outside the circle.it sucks.
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I can relate to that. My two closest friends are in happy relationships. I get hear them talking, or I get on facebook and see pictures and it just leaves a heavy feeling in my stomach, you know?
I do have Ting. But even then I realize how much more there is if you're actually with someone.
Dude, it sucks being single. It really does. But don't mope about it. Go out there, and start talking to people. Don't let them realize how tore up you feel inside. That is a personal feeling. It's inside for a reason. Be friendly, be talkative, and most of all be happy. Smile when you're talking to friends. Laugh, joke.
I'm not talking about some false illusion of happiness. Not a mask. I'm talking about genuine happiness. Because the mind is a powerful tool. If you tell yourself you are happy, soon enough you really will be.
People respond positively to happiness. People will start to talk more and want to be a part of your happiness. And once people are wanting to be around you more and wanting to be happy when they're with you... you won't have to tell yourself anymore. You will be happy.
Go to parties, bands, conventions, road trips, or anything else you can go to where people want to meet up and be happy. Stay away from things where the focal point is a substance though. If people are relying on a drug to keep them happy, or are dependent on alcohol to have a good time, then they aren't interested in people. Get out of there. But go to places where the main focus is people. Talking people, socializing people, laughing people.
Get your name known. Introduce yourself to people you don't know. And no matter what, always be happy. Soon enough people will take notice and invite you to meet more of their friends.
Expand your social circle, but keep the ones you trust the most, closest.
Another note, always dress like you're going to run into the love of your life. I'm not talking collared shirt and dress pants. But definitely not dirty, baggy, clothes either. Something plain and simple, but that still speaks positively about physical appearance.
Dude, loneliness sucks. And being single sucks too. But people will always embrace a happy asshole, over a sad intellectual.
So why not take advantage of both worlds?
Become the Alpha male.
Become the person on everyone's mind.
And above all else... be happy. -
Thanks James.
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Always here for you, Dude. You know that.
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I support being happy.
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Hmm, hate being single, but don't want a BF/GF. Dude, I have really easy solution: f--- random girls/guys!
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Or animals if you're into that kind of s---.
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Or kids I guess. Actually no, don't f--- kids. f--- animals if you must, but not kids. Even dead people would be better than kids.
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Being lonely is sad, but you there was some thing on Facebook saying "there's a difference between being heartbroken and lonely" or something like that. Don't date someone just because you're alone. As James said off now focus on being happy.
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I'm sorta seeing someone now :D
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That's great, hope you have a nice relationship.
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SilverCowgirl Newbiesorta? this doesn't sound official. Explain
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