I'm...confused.
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Thread Topic: I'm...confused.
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So there's this girl, Dolores, that goes to my school. We have Social Studies and Gym together and we sit together at lunch. We don't see each other that often, but ever since we started hanging out and stuff I've felt different. Good different.
I feel alot more confident, for one. And I'm not afraid to speak up in class. It's like she's woken up that part of me that's been in hybernation since Elementary School. The part of me that's not socially akward, that doesn't curl in a corner and cry when things go bad, that doesn't stare blankly when someone tells a joke.
I think I have a crush on her.
Which is kind of confusing 'cause I've always considered myself heterosexual. Feelings for a girl, feelings of being more then friends with a girl, are completly new to me and I don't know how to deal with them.
I'm seriously at a loss. -
Seriously, guys. I need guidance.
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Cas NewbieWhat do you need help with?
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I just explained it all. Up there, in my first post.
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Oh wow... Hattie... I'm not good in a lot of these situations Dx
Hm... How about you ask her if she's bisexual/lesbian, that you were just wondering. If she says yes, say okay and think about maybe being in a relationship with her. I she says no, then say okay and try to get over her... That's a lot of what life's about.
I hope you the best~. -
I'll try and find some nonchalant way to ask, but I'm not sure how she'd react to the question...
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Already on the second page. Wow.
So, I was planning on bringing up the ubject but I wasn't sure how to approach it without her getting suspicious. -
I felt the same. But I went with my heart. :3 And I wound up with my wonderful Alice in the end, even if it started with someone else. Alice brings out my smiles and pushes pain from my mind.
Lib only brought more pain by lying to me all the time. -.- -
For now, I would just keep her as a friend. It's always good to start and stay at Square 1 and enjoy your friendship for now. If you think that she might be heterosexual as well, then go to thatI would go to that next step.
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*then I would
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Heterosexual is straight, so I didn't understand your post e.e
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That was at Sisi.
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Oops, *homosexual
Sorry -
Oh my God, I cannot type.
Okay, so if you think that she might be homosexual, than I would go for it. -
I had the same thing happen to me! Except it was with a boy. No offense, but I really don't think to be bisexual is very ethical... Ya, my crush is outgoing, and it motivated me to follow suit. And I'm no longer the super-duper shy girl. Well, in with new people I am, can't seem to say a word. I think it was just the group of friends I hung out with. They never really paid any attention to me, like I wasn't even there. So, now I hang out with girls I'm more comfortable with. I think looking up to someone in that way is good for people. Just make sure you're not beginning to copy any possible of bad traits from that person.
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