I Need Advice
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Thread Topic: I Need Advice
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So this is going to be long and maybe alittle boring but please read and give me advice. Okay so my parents are very religous and there all like " you cant date till your seventeen" and ive have been doing my best to follow that rule but in the last couple months there has been this guy... lets just call him T.J hes been hangout with me alot and he was flirting with me...alot. and i started liking him like alot alot.So he asked me out and was very torn cuz i knew,my parents would kill me and him if they found out. So finaly i said no. And he was like heartbroken, and i felt really really bad so i said "atleast you can date other girls" and T.J said "i dont want to date any other girl i want to date you...i'll wait for you" i said " yeah right you would have to wait for along time" T.J said "id wait forever i wont be with any other girl till i can be with you " and i was like totlly shocked and i said "promise?" And he said "i promise" then he gave me a big hug and he KISSED ME!! i was walkkng on air...later that day my family took me to this restraunt place i went to the bathroom and i saw T.J and this girl who i dont know full on making out. And just like that he saw me, i flipped him and the slut off , i ran away and i could Hear T.J yelling my name and coming after and i just left. And i went home i got a million text from him, none of them that ive read...so i guess what im asking is what should i do, should i tell him off, should i calming talk to him, should i try to get revenge and if so what should i do,should i just forget him, or am i just being over dramatic about the whole situation? Any ways i hope atleast someone has tooken the time to read this and give me advice, id really apreate it cuz right now im a hot mess :)
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Ok. Let me help you in the best way I can.
Leave him. If he was making out with another girl after he told you that "he'd wait forever for you", he's not good for you. You had the right to flip him off!!
But don't worry, just tell him that if he wants to be in a relationship with you, he's going to have to be honest and sincere. After all, what's a relationship without honesty?
I wish the best of luck to you!! -
And about the religious parents thing, I can't help you with that.
My bestie isn't allowed to date til 16, but she has a boyfriend. -
raeface Noviceugh, tell him off. Tell him the he is a douche and if he wants to get serious, he needs to be honest.
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Thank you both :) it helps and means alot to me
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You should totally talk to him, but don't take him back. You can, but he has to learn he was a jerk and it's not right to play people like that.
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I would have a guy friend kick his a-- for me
Well you could date him but after what he did, and in a restaurant too, I wouldn't go out with him. He's a jerk about telling you that he would wait forever when he waited like what a day.. till he found that other girl . He doesn't seem like the type that you could have a good relationship with. -
Thanks guy but if i did talk to him i dont really know what to say... ive never like confontation
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No prob!! Always happy to help!! :)
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@Graceface Do these words mean anything to you?
-Pickel
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? No not really
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Allow him to explain himself, but don't believe him right away. He's going to have to do alot to earn your trust back.
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Yeah i finally talked to him today.... things didnt really go as plan :P
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@Graceface The mustaches and the name reminded me of my friend.
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Ohh welll today i was going to tell him off and tell him a bunch of dirty thing, but i fail at that ... and i started crying in his arms!?!?!? It was kinda amazing but at the same time iwanted him to just go away and never talk to him again...im so confused!!!
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