I Need Advice
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Thread Topic: I Need Advice
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Okay? That's sorta vague.
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Yeah i didnt think you wanted to hear my big sob story... but if you wanna know i could tell you in better detail
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If you're comfortable sharing then sure. I give best advice with specific details.
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Okay well all week hes been trying to talk to me and ive been avoiding him completely, and yesterday i decieded i was going to just tell him off and never speak to him. So he comes up to me and I was all like "what do want" And he said "You" and i said " well you didnt think that last week when your tounge was down some other girls throat" he said " yeah i still was, that was Like the worst thing i ever did,im so sorry, it was stupid...." i said " your D@ mn right it was, i cant belive you you can be such a amazing lying douchebag!" And at that point i started like shaking almost, he tried to touch my hand and i slaped it. Then he said " i know,i am... i dont desevre you, but i want you....a lot " then all the emotions came all at once, the anger,the relief,the suspision,the worry...and i started crying. And i started to runaway but then (as stupid and cheesey as it sounds) he came after me and held me in his arms and i cried and cried into his shoulder. And when i was all composed i kinda light slapped him. And be said " do you forgive me now " and i just walk away. And now i dont know what to do...i still like him but im not sure i can trust him. Do you think i should forgive him?
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Forgive, but never forget. He doesn't deserve a second chance.
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raeface NoviceGRACALYN MAE ZUK!!! You didn't tell me ANY of this! The crying in his arms, the confrontation, any of it! what the heck!
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@raeface You didnt ask. And i was going to tell you, i just needed time to cool off.
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Samalama13 NewbieIf younstill like this guy then forgive him but ask him for time because he needs to earn your trust back then you can decide what to do but don't fallnfor any romantic crape till he earns back your trust!
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i think this is an awesome story!
you should forgive him, but don't forget what he did. if you see him again then never forgive him. if you don't, well, we'll see :) -
Thanks everyone for your guys advice. :) its helped. i basicly told him i forgive him,but i dont want to get in a relaonship with him and so now were just akward friends :)
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I think guys just get really messed up sometimes. Everyone needs a second chance. If it messes up again, then he's obviously not learning from his mistakes, and you should leave him. But imagine yourself in his shoes. You're so in love with this girl. She means the world to you. And you tell her you'll wait for her, cuz she's special, then you mess up and can't sleep at night, she hates you just like you knew she would, and you wish you could rewind your life... you just want so badly for her to be loving, forgiving, and understanding, but you know she won't be... so, maybe you should try to be that forgiving girl, give him mercy this time, and tell him you want to start over. But be prepared for the worst. If he slips up again- well, he's all out of luck. Text him. talk to him. let him hold your hand or whatever he was doing. If he's the one, he'll make it up to you, and will learn from his mistakes. Hope this helped.
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he slips up again, and he's just a player. but when you talk to him, don't blame him. He's not stupid; he knows he's messed up. Just tell him you still love him. No relationships are perfect.
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