Friendship help.
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Thread Topic: Friendship help.
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Okay so yesterday I started crying during math because of someone I thought was a close friend (and also my crush). Later that day he asked another one of my best friends to ask me if I reported him (and his annoying friends) to the principal. I didn't tell her I jsut said, "tell him actions have conciquences" and hung up. Then I called him later and left a message telling him that I didn't go to the principal. And then he was texting me around 9:20 (at night) and in summary he said, "What's gotten into you?" then started getting mad, I gave him a lecture about how much he hurt me/bullying, and then he said, "at this point all I can say is I'm sorry". I didn't accept it right away and I was typing a long message, but after a minute or two he sent me "hello" as in, 'you there?'. His response to my long message was (in summary, yet again) "I'm sorry for getting you mad, I didn't mean to" then (yet again) he asked, "hello" after a minute or two. Then he said his battery was about to die and I thought it was just an excuse to stop the fight, but he told my friend that he was also texting to tell me. After a couple minutes he plugged his phone in and yet again said, "I'm sorry I hurt you I didn't mean to" and I wasn't sure if he was jsut apologizing so I wouldn't tell the principal or because he meant it and he said, "I mean it, but I need you to calmly tell me what I did wrong". At that time it was 10:10 and at 10:13 he asked "hello" again. Then at 10:15 he sent, "Please answer me" and even though I couldn't see or hear him, it sounded desperate. I told him what was wrong and how it hurt, what he said, and he sent "I didn't mean it". Then he got kinda not caring anymore and he said, "Sorry again, but I'm really tired so I think I'm gonna crash ttyl". I decided to forgive him because I care about him a lot more than he realizes.
And today:
Me: Are you still mad at me?
Him: No, you still mad at me?
Me: No, I was never mad, I was just. . .
Him: Really upset?
Me: Yeah.
Him: Yeah, I know the feeling.
Me: *Nods*
Then we had to leave, but for the rest of the day he wouldn't really look at me or talk to me. :(
So basicly what I'm asking is, when he was asking all those "hello"s and that one "please answer me", do you think he just didn't want to get in trouble or he actually cared about what I thought/felt? And then today, what do you think he was feeling that he wouldn't talk to me? I think he was either still mad and just wouldn't tell me, or he felt really bad about what he did and didn't want to upset me again. Please answer and take the time to read this, then I'll help with anyone else's friend problems. -
Samantha2332 NoviceI would answer, but I have no idea about what happened today, and I cant tell with txts, it all depends on who he is as a person, but maybe I would lean more towards actually cared
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