i need opinions...
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Thread Topic: i need opinions...
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i met the girl im dating on xbox live. i love her. she is my world. but the only sad thing is is that it is a long distance relationship. i envy you people who can actually hold the person you love in your arms... because you have no idea how valuable that is.
but any way, i cant see her in real life. and this guy named brandon, lives in her home town, and started hitting on her! she flat out told him that she was with me, but he kept on going after her. this really bothered her, because she was already having a hard time because of a long distance relationship, plus the fact that she felt it was her fault, that he liked her. earlier today, she called me up and said that our relationship was missing something. she said that there was a major hole and that she needed to be able to hold the person she loved...
... that killed me on the inside...
but she went on to say that even though it really hurt her, she didnt want to date anymore. then she broke down crying, she told me about how she still really loved me and how the first chance she got she would come and find me. she said that she had made a dumb--- mistake and regretted it. but later in the conversation when i asked her if she regretted it, she said "only time will tell". i do believe that she still really loves me, and that she does regret making her decision, but i dont know what to do. her and i came to an agreement for an 'open relationship'. which means that we will still love each other more than the world, but we would see other people because of the need for physical attention. (we're both minors so get your mind out of the gutter).
but the more i think about it the more i regret that decission. i have found the most perfect person in the world, and after that, nothing seems worth it. i have only been broken up for 5 hours now and i am sick to my stomache, feeling like dying, and still on the verge of crying.
no one said that long distance relationships would be easy...
or painless...
i guess my only fear is is that she will find in this other guy, everything that i was to her and more. i fear that i wasnt good enough for her and that in a few days time she will totally forget about me. i've been forgotten about so much in my life that i dont want to face that again.
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i really do love her, and i hope, no i pray! that she loves me just as much.
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sooo what do you need an opinion about?
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idk... just anything at this point.
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um lol i think your a bit girl crazy and maybe you need to realize that "love" if there is such a thing is (while should be intellectual in my opinion) has STRONG roots in physical and you seem very easily hurt and also very committed...maybe you just need to find your self a real girl that you CAN protect and hold and nurture the way you want to with these net girls you find...cuz bro..it's tearing you to pieces...idk i mean i've seen it twice now..you need yerself a girl that you can touch...just saying..
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find another girl *blushes*
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and f--- you slim.
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lol, jk. i have tried to talk to the girls in my area and they all one of two problems...
they either avoid me at all costs...
or think that everything i do is funny and just consider me more of family than anything else.
i cant help it that the most wonderful people i meet are hundreds of miles away. and i wish everyday that they were closer. -
and pink...
...no. -
where do you live... im willing to go out with you
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let me rephrase that...
...hell no. -
yeah man i hear that...and i mean...i'm one to talk..i take my net life so seriously it's mental :\ ya but i do..i just wan away from my life for a while...
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dude, lol i'm not bi but anyone can see that you got some serious looks...just take some pain pills bro and find yerself a real girl cuz that's what you NEED..
lol again if i'm dead wrong..like i said i'm one to talk... -
ok... where do you live... i have tons of friends that would like you.
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thank you for that compliment slim. but i dont think i can or even want to work myself out of this one. i love her dude. i really do.
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pink... NO!
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well, then dude...stick with her. if you love her then you love her.
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just tryin to help...
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