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Ummmm.... If I were you, I would stick with what your parents have to say. They're not idiots and they wouldn't be saying s--- like that for no reason.
Be careful.... ;)
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why are people on my parents side?? my parents don't know them. my mom met marc, and all she had to say was "ooh he likes you!" xP
I think my parents should trust me and my judgement. I'm not stupid. there was a dude one time I met and I could tell he was a rapist and I didn't fall for any of that s---. -
Well, maybe it's the whole hormones/teenager/rebel stereotype you're into, but parents are not as stupid as we say they are. If they find out that you went against their wishes, trust me, they won't be able to sleep at night because they will be up all night thinking tha they failed as a parent.
They worry for you for good reason. Maybe you should trust their judgement instead of looking for acceptance, that might work.
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I know that my parentals are worried and I get that, but they don't need to be and usually, in the past, like before Saturday, they've always trusted me. even the time they found out when I did pot, I didn't really get in trouble and I was actually able to hang out with them again.
but when it comes to hanging out with guy-friends OUTSIDE of school and work, they don't like.
stop winky-facing me!!! I do know what I'm doing. would you like it if your parents said you couldn't ever hang out with one of your closest friend? -
Well, I think that's the problem: Them finding out that you did pot might have them waiting for you to earn their trust again. Not that doing pot is bad, but like I said, when a kid hides things from a parent and the parent finds out, it makes the parentals feel like they failed as a parent.
Well, don't you see the problem? You did pot. You're parents, being the smart people that they are, would assume that you don't do pot all alone. So, do you really think tha they thought you were doing weed inside school with your girlfriends? No, of course not. They're gonna assume that you did it outside of school and them accusing your close friends of being a rapist just means that they don't trust him. Odds are, your 'rents think you're gonna go do pot with him.
No, I would hate to forbidden from hanging with my close friends. The thing is, I understand that with all actions come repurcussions, same with mistakes. I'm absolutely sure you know thins too but, with your little mishap, come the repurcussions and you'll just have to deal with it.
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@ Nikki how old are you? I only did pot once and I told mom and dad I didn't like it and I haven't done it since that was in like April I think that's no longer something to worry about.
and feel guilt? not anymore. not at all anymore. I've been the sweet innocent obeying little girl forever and I've been locked inside this house with no friends and no life and being really shy. no. I'm f---ing sick of that s---. I couldn't take it anymore and during this school year I'm so glad things happened the way they did. I don't regret any of it. I learned from my mistakes and I know what's right and what's wrong for myself.
@vege: haha of course I'll have my good knife with me! I did last time too, on accident though.
but haha.. I guess it wouldn't be that bad.. cuz he's not that bad haha ;) but technically, he's 25 months and 10 days older than me, so it is illegal to f---. x) oh darn. -
Age is irrelevant. Whether you did it once or a million times, it makes no difference unless you've learned your lesson. Apparently, you have, but your parents don't see it. Please, you "deprived" life means nothing. They were protecting you, trying to build a stronger character out of you. I've said it before and I'll say it again: You acting dishonest will only make them think that they have failed as parents. By the looks of it, you're gonna prove them right. You should feel guilt, considering all the tough times your parents went through to raise you and then to have them realize that they failed and went through it all for nothing.
I hope you're joking: Having sex before marriage isn't necesarily a good thing ;) -
hmm how to explain this..... I f---ING SNAPPED IM GOING CRAZY IM LOSING MY MIND IM SORRY I JUST CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE THIS TOWN THIS HOUSE THIS FAMILY THESE PEOPLE THIS COUNTRY GAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! to be completely honest; sometimes I wonder why I'm not in an insane asylum... seriously.
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Nikki, you're p*ssing me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! @cm3 I lie to my parents all the time. They just don't understand. They are smarter than you give them credit for, but since they think they know alot, they won't notice the clues to things they don't know. A little rebellion is good for you, besides, don't you love that adrenaline rush when you're doing something you're not supposed to be doing? I have it right now. If I were a parent, I'd make sure I knew everything, but I'd never tell my kids what I knew. So when they tried to sneak out, I'd leave the door unlocked for them when they came back in. I'd be the silent helper, undercover.
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@Nikki yes, please tell us, how old are you? I can't tell if you're a little kid or a parent yourself. One moment you're being disrespectful and advertising your quizzes everywhere you go and the next moment, you're telling us to be respectful of our parents?! I don't get it.
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I wish my parents would do that kind of stuff. but nooo. so, I went and hung out with him. I said to my parents that I'll come home when the fireworks were done. ok.
we were doing little fireworks, the legal kind (big mortars and exploding s--- is illegal in minnesota), and my mom called. she asked when I'd be home cuz the city fireworks were done. I wasn't at the city fireworks dumbs---! I said we still had a lot more fountains and I'd come home when we were done.
for a while after we actually finished the fireworks, we talked and just hung out, and at like 12:30 I got a ride home. I would have stayed longer, but marc was concerned that my parents would be mad and not like him... (that's a good sign...).
so I got home and my mom glared at me and said I'm in trouble I asked why, cuz I did what I said Id do, but she misunderstood and thought I meant the city fireworks for some reason (the city fireworks here are dumb), and now I'm in trouble. she was obviously pissed and I didn't want to deal with that after having a great time so I jus went to bed. well, hah to bed... I'm sitting In bed. -
Nice move, Kitty. It's not right to lie to your parents, the adrenaline you're reffering to? That's your conscience. Besides, the adrenaline you have for a moment, the guilt will last forever. Your parents go through the trouble to raise you, don't you understand that? Don't be selfish children, there are too many of those already. Think about them and then think about yourself: Are you really doing the right thing? What will you benefit from this? Is this helping me in any way?
Rebellion may be good, but that's when it comes to outing your opinions and speaking your mind, not doing drugs and sneaking out. Your parents are wprried for you, they want to watch you grow up and see you turn in to a respectable adult. But, when they see you do stunts like this, they can't sleep at night. They realize all that they've done for and start to think that it's their fault you turned out the way you did. You ruined their life, don't you see that? They will never say it to their face, but you ruined their life. Having a child gets the parent stuck in a routine, without the option of bailing out. Cut them some slack, they want you to grow up right but by the looks of it, you really truly don't care about their well being, only yourself.
She misunderstood or you gave out the wrong message? She was worried about you, she cares about you don't you see that? And I don't believe the story: you expect me to think that as she accused you, you acted like little miss sweetheart? I doub it. Odds are you got a little lippy and annoyed her in some way, either that or her day didn't turn out all that well.
For goodness sakes, care for them! It's not all about you, where are your morals? DO you respect your parents at all? Don't sneak out or lie, it won't do you any good. Would you like that if your kids did that without telling you? Kitty, you are a liar. No one likes being lied to, especially a parent.
Like I said: age is irrelevant. If you couldn't already tell my age range, you're a lost cause.
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I am a liar. I could never be in Candor.
Guess what Nikki? I love you!!!!!! -
Excuse me? Why? Explain. I'm lost, your reply boggles my mind ;)
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Divergent.
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