What should you do after your heart was broken?
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Thread Topic: What should you do after your heart was broken?
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Any advice?
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Don't try love for a while until your heart is mended.
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Okay.
I don't think I should love at all, to me honest. -
If you think that best for you, then don't.
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Recover and move forward.
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*Of course, you're, what, twelve? You'll be fine.
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14. Not 12, excuse me.
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I'm honestly insulted by that, especially by the incalculable amount of times that I have frequently said my current age. I'm not motherf---ing twelve, I might act like it on particular occasions and it can be quite a nuisance but I am fourteen. I understand if this was a minor misunderstanding, I just find that age guess kind of ridiculous. You really must be out of touch, aren't you?
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12 or not, you still have a long way to go before declaring that you're done with love.
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I just don't want to be in a relationship. I don't care how old I am. I just don't.
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Then don't?
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Attempt to mend it. Basically that's all that you can do. But if you want to dwell over that he/she was your perfect one. That you'll never meet another person so special like him/her, then you'll never recover from it. You'll constantly be living in the past, lingering over how you can make yourself better for that person, that's not the best way to go. Be a tragic girl, with tubs and tubs of icecream watching sappy love movies, or horror. Your choice. But horror might be one of the choices that'll be good for you. Pretend the person getting killed is the person who broke your heart. Then have a nice laugh after it. Fixate on something. Don't stray from your regular routine, if you have work, loose yourself in your work. Or art. Or anything you normally do to focus only on that. And not the problems swirling around you like a whirlpool.
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Exactly.
That means I'm decide that I am done with love.
And just to think that that person was my "perfect" choice honestly makes me cringe. There's no words that can display how they are. So, yeah, it just makes me sick to my stomach. -
Grow a pair of balls.
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Whichever of the following appeals the most to you:
Let your emotions loose. There's no shame in having a broken heart. If you hold back your feelings, your grieving period will last longer and you'll feel worse. In the beginning, it's okay to be honest and open about your feelings. When you're alone, cry as much as you want to. Try not to cry too much in public, but if you can't help it, don't be embarrassed.
Be honest with your friends and family by telling them you're having a rough time. There's no point in being in denial about how awful you feel.
Write all of your sad thoughts in your journal. You'll feel better after getting them off your chest.
It's okay to be honest about your emotions to yourself and the people who care the most about you, but do not take your grief to social media. Don't post on your Facebook or Twitter account about how sad you are or how awful you feel after your breakup. Telling people you barely know about your deepest feelings will embarrass them and you, and this will be something you deeply regret in the future.
Making time for mourning means not seeing your ex. Don't try to prove how tough or "okay with it" you are by having a weekly dinner with your ex, or texting your ex when something reminds you of him or her. Unless you live together or need to be in contact for logistical reasons, such as getting your stuff back from his or her apartment, cut off contact as much as you can. This will help you heal much quicker. You can try to be friends with your ex when you're ready, but it won't always work.
(sorry that it's long , but you asked)
Spend time with your friends.
-be a silly as you want, since you are foot loose and fancy free
-enjoy your freedom. You don't have to put of with any more melancholy
-It's fine to have a good hearty laugh with you friends
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Get back in touch with long-lost friends. If you were in a committed relationship for a long time, then chances are that you left a few friends by the wayside because you didn't have enough time to pursue your relationship along with so many friendships. Here's what you can do: If you found out that an old friend from high school or college just moved into your neighborhood, don't be afraid to get in touch. You can reconnect and find that your relationship is even stronger than ever.
If you stopped talking to a close friend a while after she moved away from you, use this time to call her up and see how she's doing. You will find that you've missed many things about your relationship.
If one of your old friends moved abroad, write him or her a letter. This will help you reconnect and reflect in the process.
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