So right thread this time. Same problem.
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Thread Topic: So right thread this time. Same problem.
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We dated for like three days then she dumped me because she wasn't ready. I was cool like yeah I understand and what not you know I was fine then when I saw her the next day I was just like "f---!" I so thought it was going to last longer. I mean I'm pretty sure some time in the future we will date again but I have no patience. The funniest thing about us was we liked each other since the beginning of the year but neither of us had the balls to say anything. So she dated a guy all year and I went from girl to girl. We've been best friends through the year and people kept telling us we should date and we'd just laugh and she'd say I'm like a brother to her (That's the reason I never said anything she was too afraid because I'd say she was like one of the guys). Anyways her and the guy were off and on (and this is kind of off topic but also on I guess) and when ever they were off I'd comfort her and be there for her and I'd start thinking maybe I have a chance with her then she'd get back with him. This continued for a while (She'd always swear it's the last time) and I'd always just be there and finally stopped getting my hopes up. Until this last time where she said he started becoming abusive he'd treat her like a doll pull her in slap her and she didn't like it so she left him and burnt all his stuff. I knew this one was gonna be the last so my hopes were high again and I comforted her although she didn't really need it she seemed fine. We were always together during track season and at state that's when I she started flirting with me and I started flirting with her that first night we ended up falling asleep in each others arms and it was just nice and perfect. Then the next day we walked around together and she fell asleep on my chest so I wrapped my arms around her and eventually slept as well. Anyways the next day when I was at home we were texting one another and I messed around asking her if she liked my cuddles she said yeah and then completely mind f---ed me and got me to admit my feelings for her (Don't ask me how she did it I don't even know) she then admitted hers for me and I asked her in a kinda romantic way (if you know the back story which none of you do) if she'd want to lose a bet she made with her friend (Bet was we wouldn't date) she said yeah and then it was nice. Everything seemed fine those few days we were together but as she said "it's hard being smart because you over thing things." So one night she said she wasn't ready and that maybe one day we can date again and that was that. So as I said I was fine but now I just feel like s--- and my thoughts are clouded by her and nothing seems to be going right I just don't know.
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Something that's confusing me about her is she had me change my relationship status back to single but hers still says she's in a relationship with me.
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Maybe, she really likes you.... And her reason for breakup looks real and true.
My heart says she'll wait and ask you again. -
Wow...god even my love guru side doesn't have an answer for that.
But from what I can tell she really does like you. -
wow complicated and LONG could you sumerise that
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@Veronica I don't know though I mean lately she's been cold to me then opens up later on in class and she doesn't really talk to me anymore. It's just so confusing.
@Anri Hell I'm supposed to be Cupid and I can't even get a anything from this it's just as I said confusing and it's a pain in the ass.
@Cleo I'm not summarizing anything those are the words I chose to use mainly because I couldn't think of any others ways to say it but still. -
Hm...Do you have friends that could talk to her about it?
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Yeah but that is not an option.
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So I think I finally got a read on her. I believe she just likes me as a friend and had a mixture of emotions that night we cuddled and same thing the day I asked her out. I also believe she really likes her other friend way more than me. So I don't have a chance since he lives in the same town as her and she sees him more so yeah guess it's time Cupid gave up. Yeah I'm kinda like blank right now from my realization. I can't believe I didn't realize this sooner though when we were friends she'd always tell me how she really likes him and she regrets never giving him a chance cuz he got hot in highschool. I also blame myself for letting my body slip out of my hands and getting chunky like maybe if I still had all the f---ing muscle I'd have had a better chance at keeping her. Maybe if my parents let me have more freedom I could've seen her more and made it work. Maybe if I wasn't such a nervous wreck around her I'd have been able to be the smooth f--- I usually am and she'd still like me. I don't know.
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Awe...
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Aww..
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