Something that's been causing a lot of problems
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Thread Topic: Something that's been causing a lot of problems
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Alburt Eisten NewbieWhen I think a girl likes me, and I like her back, well it's natural that I would like to go a little deeper with her. But after let's say some days that girl suddenly changes behaviour, ignoring me or trying to show me that she doesn't like me. This really puzzles me, because that girl was never so unfriendly before...
The most recent case is this girl in our class. When I figured that she might be interested in me because of the glances and stares(not like ordinary, she was trying to catch my eyes), I decided I might let myself like someone again. We talked a few times and she was really friendly; laughing, joking, smiling and stuff during our convos. I was happy about it and planned on getting to know her more and maybe ask her out. But suddenly today, she seemed very unfriendly; not even looking at me once as if she suddenly has zero interest in me...
Maybe it was all in my head... maybe she didn't like me at all and the glances and other stuff all didn't mean anything and she wasn't aware...or is there really any explanation for this? I'd really appreciate any help because this is causing a lot of confusion and problems in my life because it's happened with many girls. Thanks in advance. -
Alburt Eisten NewbieSomething to add, I'm very reversed in expressing my emotions especially in cases with people I don't know a lot. Even the two conversations we had was thanks to my friend because he was the one to call them over and start the talk...Might this have anything to do with this?
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That could have something to do with it. Maybe she thought you weren't interested because she (and previous girls) confused your shyness with disinterest, embarressment in being seeing with her/them. I would personally want to be with a guy who made an effort to come and talk to me...
Good luck :)
Tips:
-Be more confident
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UnLoving NoviceShe doesn't like you bro. I would know because that's what I do when I stop liking a guy; I start pretending he doesn't exist and just turn into a complete snob XD If she's suddenly unfriendly she doesn't like you anymore or she might've figured you stopped liking her.
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She's on her period, tap her butt to check for pads.
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Donotdisturb NewbieHey,look at in her eyes and tell her the truth.she will like it.
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