Yes I'm back on this thread and need help
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Thread Topic: Yes I'm back on this thread and need help
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help pleaseeee
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3rd and 4th base
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I should also clarify, we're both 17.
Every time we're together, he moves a bit further. and I don't mind, but I keep worrying that we'll go too far. but seeing as it's my first relationship, I have no idea how far too far is. -
Too far is when you start to feel uncomfortable. It isn't determined by other people.
Your body, your choices, your ability to give consent. If he tries to push you to do something that makes you uncomfortable, say no. THAT is when it's too far. -
That is the problem, I don't feel uncomfortable, and he just gets really turned on and doesn't think. I'm worried that there's going to be later repercussions because we end up going too far (like if we break up)
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Well what you need to do is figure out exactly how far is too far. And then tell him. That's all you can do. And if he tries to push past that, then he's not worth your time.
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too far tends to change as the relationship moves on, but thanks.
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It's your first relationship. Personally, I'd be going a little slower. But I'm not you. Consider what he is to you, and his feelings toward you. Again, it's your first relationship. If you think things are going too fast, talk to him. If he can't try to compromise with you on it, then he's not really worth it.
I don't know though.
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