When is it time for sex in a relationship?
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Thread Topic: When is it time for sex in a relationship?
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As much as it screws me over, some people just really don't find it that appealing. Either a lack of curiosity or they just don't get any big thrill out of it.
I personally enjoy it very much. But I have to respect the person I'm with and find some kind of compromise. -
how is that possible?!? maybe I'm just too dudely (cuz all guys like sex haha) but I don't see how anyone can not like it.
hah James at least you'll always have Rosey Palms and her 5 friends. Or hopefully you'll always have her, no lawnmower accidents now! -
You know it's funny you say that because I mowed the lawn today and the mower broke down.
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And I may always have that, but I really don't want to always have to rely on that. You know what I mean?
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haha you didn't stick rosey under the lawnmower then did you? :o
Yeah I know what you mean :P -
So yeah everyone... that pretty well sums it all up.
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I f---ed up up there with the parenthesis. it was supposed to be "(it's a grey spectrum) and that's totally fine"
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I want to wait until after I'm married for religious reasons. Unless I'm married it just doesn't seem right.
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@Topaz: Same :) I want to 'save myself'.
Also, to be honest I'm a tad scared. What if 'IT' doesn't fit? Does it hurt (for girls)?
...and, for those of you who have had sex or are soon willing- aren't you afraid of getting pregnant? -
@ange: well, the first time might hurt a bit if you aren't ready or relaxed enough for it. The key is being comfortable and lots of foreplay. As for your second question, yes every sexually active person is afraid of a pregnancy, but when contraception is used correctly (especially 2 types at once) then the chances of pregnancy are VERY VERY low.
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it's completely circumstantial. Other than the physical consequences such as STDs and pregnancy it's not any bigger a deal than it's made out to be by the given couple or group of sexual partners.
that being said, in a committed and romantic relationship sexuality can be useful for building closeness and intimacy. It's been observed by biologists that sex or any substantial and positive sexual act between people releases hormones that cause humans to bond more quickly and deeply. Specifically the hormone Dopamine is released and causes the sexual partners to receive positive feelings when thinking of or seeing something related to their partner.
so optimally, a couple would have sex at the very earliest opportunity of comfort in their relationship.
personally I wouldn't wait more then two or three months at the VERY most, unless the girl was really worth my while, and I'm talking extremely worth it. with one exception I've never even waited a full two months..usually a lot less then that. -
Other than the patience portion, I agree with Slim.
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I'm not a girl, but I think some people make a big deal out of sex. Sure, it must hurt the first time and stuff but, I'm not quite sure, it is believed that females feel more pleasure during sex than males.
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People make a big deal out of sex because it is a big deal. It's giving your body to someone else. You shouldn't just give your body away without thinking properly first. Your body is a treasure.
Also, sex can bring forth devestating consequences. They may be unlikely but when they happen there's no turning back.
Think first. Respect your body. Respects their body. -
I wait until we can both do it without feeling any guilt.
For most women, that means marriage x3
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