Why do guys have such a problem with dating overweight girls
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Thread Topic: Why do guys have such a problem with dating overweight girls
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ange, I do have to disagree with one thing you said though. Categorizing anyone overweight with being lazy is grossly oversimplifying it. Some people do hard work all the time and are overweight. Some people do absolutely nothing at all and are thin and lean.
I spent years sitting there playing video games and never broke 150. Now that I'm actually doing physical labor though and working out regularly, I've actually gained weight and a bit of a stomach. Lazy and overweight are not synonymous. -
i actually take offense to that fat people are lazy remark -.-
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ange, what you said bugs the hell out of me, but I respect that's your opinion but I'm going to share with you a story
There was a woman who got osteoperosis and will be in a wheel chair by the end of the decade because of people who think that way. The doctors and everyone told her to diet because she had an abnormal sized bottom half and it turned out she was constantly misdiagnosed and had something wrong with her body that caused her to be big.
And then there are the people who constantly work their asses off (no pun intended) and are still large like bob said, not everyone who is large is lazy.
I'd use me as an example but it wouldn't help my case all that much. -
@barberbob2: I know! I envy those people who eat HEAPS and don't gain weight!
I agree. But I was just stating what type of guy I am attracted to. It might be shallow and simple but if you don't know the guy you generally judge by appearance. Personality is most important though! If a guy is sexy, in perfect body shape, great at sport etc, but is a major butt head and a lazy bum- I don't like them AT ALL. However, if they're chubby, but kind etc- I will like them.
Although many refuse to admit- physical appearance is definately taken into account.
@Nuna: I'm sorry you took offence. But we all have our difference in opinion and someone will usually take offence when personal opinion is introduced. -
@Carri04: I do feel for those people and have also heard of cases similar to that.
But my opinion remains the same. Although I believe you are right and have a kind, gentle opinion on this topic, I still remain attracted to 'fit' looking guys. I do admit stereotyping physical appearance and then passing that through to particular personality traits. -
ladylaughalot NewbieSize doesn't matter 2 me I'm 5'6 and went out with an overweight Guy is 5 foot the only thing that matters is personality
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hearing that from mo just made me smile and giggle because i'm a fat f--- and i was worried for a second.
I exercise and I'm the last person people know to be eating junk. xP Yet I'm.. ehm.. fat as hell. -
Football players actually get kinda chubby at times because they have to eat a lot to maintain a weight balance. My brother would be overweight if he didn't stop working out after highschool. People who work hard tend to eat more, because they need the energy, so I can see how you gain weight that way.
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You're not fat, bby. You're adorably chubby, and I don't mind. c:
You don't wanna be a twig anyway. :B -
If I were single and looking,not attracted to them at first sight to be honest.But if I really got to know them and we clicked I could look past that and wouldn't care,its just the more of her to love lol.
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ladylaughalot NewbieSame here
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I actually would have no problem with that >///
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We live in a society where we strive for perfection. Simple as that.
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How a girl looks doesnt matter to me.
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This situation got sticky.
Nate that can't be true, to fall in love with someone there has to be some type of attraction there in the first place.
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