Are you Non-Binary? | Comments
Below are comments submitted by GoToQuiz users for the quiz Are you Non-Binary?
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I feel like I might just be nonbinary after all. I've been trying to repress these feelings so much around how I perceived myself, but no matter what they like to come back. I have been on hormones in the hope that whatever dysphoria I was experiencing would be relieved, but it turned out even with hormones I still couldn't cope. I can't handle being a cisgender woman or being a binary (trans) man. I even tried being gender nonconforming and even this didn't help me!
I guess if there's nothing else that can make me happy, I'll have to accept that I'm nonbinary and be proud of myself instead of both afraid and ashamed. I hate my chest, I wish they were cut off or diseased so I can get them surgically removed. I hated the psychological changes I got on testosterone. I hated that I couldn't feel anything. It was supposed to help, but it didn't.
WHY ON EARTH DID I START HORMONES IN THE FIRST PLACE? I was either too stubborn to consider myself any different or I honestly was convinced. When you've been out as a "trans man" for 4 years and feel your mental health improving as time goes on, you think, hey! This is right! This is how I'm supposed to be! So of course you start hormones, because everything pointed to "yes" at the time. And the pain you get when that doesn't happen. It hurts.
I feel uncomfortable being a woman. I see all of these girls out there being happy with themselves, my sister included, and yet when I try to picture myself as female with the curves and whatnot... I just feel like hiding myself away for the rest of my days.
If only nonbinary was more accepted in the world, it would just help. Just help to belong without anyone questioning whether you're mentally sane or not. I don't want anyone to look at me and think "they're doing it for fun! To be trendy! It's your personality, not your gender!"
I wish it was only just my personality, it would be a lot better than being at war with
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I know it can be very stressful. I feel the same way. I would love to bind my chest, change my name and identify as non-binary but I'm afraid of what people will think of me and I'm too afraid to tell my parents, I hinted at it before and they didn't believe me!
I also hate the thoughts of having curves...when I think about it, or see myself in the mirror I feel sick, depressed and want to live in a hole for the rest of my life!
I dont want to be a boy either though i often get called one with my short hair and fasion choice.
Hopefully non-binary binary people and the LGBTQ+ community will gain more acceptance and things such as hate crimes will end. I wish it didn't have to be so complicated...
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Your score is 60%! You're an amazing person! 60%
You are probably not non binary as much as confused or transgender female to male or male to female.
Um, no. Im non-binary and this quiz is stupid! So what if I dont mind wearing a dress to a dance or something formal? Its not a big deal, theres not much non-binary formal clothing styles in my opinion!
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not to s--- on your quiz or anything, but youre using "triggered" completely wrong. being triggered by something is when your mental illness acts up because you saw something. not having gender neutral restrooms probably ISNT going to actually trigger someone.using triggered in that connotation is really disrespectful to anyone who actually gets triggered.
killeren2 -
This is a pretty awful quiz. I am 100% nonbinary and according to this quiz, I am confused. If you are nonbinary or you suspect that you are nonbinary, please don't let anyone, especially the internet, dictate your gender. Only you know who you really are.
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hi, nonbinary person here! very nice quiz, but youre using the term "triggered" completely wrong. it does not mean "offended" or "bothered" people only ever use it like this to be edgy or rude to those who call out bad behaviors. the truth is, its a word associated with mentally ill people, usually those with ptsd or anxiety disorders. something related to their trauma/anxiety may "trigger" an episode. getting "triggered" in this manner is more than just being annoyed or offended, its serious and more than just a little distressful. the term in such a way is disrespectful to the experiences of these people, but its also disrespectful to nonbinary and trans people! let me explain, the term has been used to mock and harass trans/nb people for being "triggered" whenever something offends them. its true that someone may actually get triggered from being misgendered, but theres a difference between that and someone egging them on for being "LOL TRIGGERED?? XD" whenever they call out any form of bigotry to science them. people use it in such a way because theyre INTENTIONALLY trying to make trans and nb people sound hysterical so they can rag on them without consequences. like i said, this quiz is great and your intent is good so i dont think you meant anything like that by it! but please understand this is not a positive phrase for us to be associated with, and most of us dont actually use it that often.
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I didn't like how you used triggered. i would of had some different answers but the amount of triggered's is just to much. some answers i would have done but being reminded that choosing this answer would make me a SJW isn't nice as well as making me think i might be an SJW anyway.
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This isn’t accurate some people can personally identify as non-binary but are to scared to say it publicly
RedThing3-
Thats exactly how I feel...
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amen
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I was very confused for a while. THIS QUIZ COULD BE BS but for me it was helpful to know I should be a happy lady and not unhappy when I felt like a lady.
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I got nonbinary
Emery1231 -
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It is confirmed. I am still a girl even though people say I act like a boy.
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I’m non-binary and according to this quiz I’m confused I’m excuse me
Heyimgay1
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