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Drama! I'm familar with this as of recently! :/

Explain your situation to both of the girls seperately and be completely honest. Tell them they're a great friend and tell them how much your friendship means. Apologise for any confusion or hurt and let them know you love them and want to pull through this.

It seems to me like both girls are a little self consious and jealous. Neither wants to be seen as second best! They were probably looking for oppurtunities to critisize your motives. Sounds selfish but they may have done this to gain attention from you and to reassure themselves about your friendship.

If you could all go shopping on Saturday it'd be great! I love girl bonding time :) I know girls can be annoying and over dramatic but if you can make this friendship work, make it! Girls have got to stick together! :)

Howdy, I'm gonna tell you what I would do if I were you. First of all, calm down, this ain't the end of the world. Second, just explain to each of them in person what's going on, then they'll probably understand. And if they don't, then oh well, forget about it, they'll forget about it soon and you'll all be happy again. Also, just arrange another date to hang out, this stuff happens to me all the time, and it sucks, you just gotta learn to let it go and plan again, we're all busy, it's normal.

I really hope I helped, this kind of stuff can really drive you CRAZY. My overall point is to just calm down, and plan another date to hang out.

Have a nice day!! :)

Same here! But I have already got it solve.

First of all calm down as you only want it to be all over. But remember, to get it solve, You have to make a move. So if you have a friend you also trust like for personal stuff, talk to her. If you don't just go to Sam , causually, then say it straigh, whatwver is happening . It might work for some people but for some you have to like explain through letters or messages. After that you should go ang out with ONE of them then slowly become two since Sam might think that you are trying to left her out again.

Same here! But I have already got it solve.

First of all calm down as you only want it to be all over. But remember, to get it solve, You have to make a move. So if you have a friend you also trust like for personal stuff, talk to her. If you don't just go to Sam , causually, then say it straigh, whatwver is happening . It might work for some people but for some you have to like explain through letters or messages. After that you should go ang out with ONE of them then slowly become two since Sam might think that you are trying to left her out again.

okay first, RELAX!! this is not stress. this is frustration from drama. second, try having kaitlyn explain things so Sam and if she still doesnt understand then leave her alone. she's being ridiculous and probably looking for some kind of drama to start. i've had plenty of friends do that. my advice to you is to stop caring so much about these things. if you can go to the mall, go. if you can't then whatever. there is always next week and the week after that and so on and so on. If Sam is being this ridiculous, then let her because she would understand your situation if she were really your friend.

You should explain to Sam one more time and if she doesn't believe you, show her the texts if you still have 'em. I agree with cheese1234, there are more days you can spend with them. Try having a sleepover one weekend to get closer to your friends. Sleepovers always help! Either way Sam will get over this. Don't stress yourself out so much. It will be fine. :)

i hope that helped, :}