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You think your parents are 9% good to you 9%

Your relationship with your parents seems to be very bad. You think they don't care about you, or that they mind their own business more, but you should know that a child is a parent's biggest treasure. If your parents are harsh, maybe you should try to calm things down a bit. I know it's not your fault, but maybe you can go talk to them and tell them why you don't agree with their way of behaving with you.

... i can't talk to my parents about anything, that's why i got 9%. i told my mom once that she made me feel invalidated and belittled and she just dismissed it. she doesn't care, it doesn't matter. i already tried talking, why would I try it again just to be ignored?

lmao I got 7% and I found it pretty accurate, my parents are always bad mouthing about me, only cares about how much I score, only worry about their feelings, they're such narcissists they always make everything about themselves.The most annoying part is they think they're right NO.MATTER.WHAT. They demand attention 24/7 and don't even respect my boundaries. They're so full of ego that they've never said sorry, let that alone they never even accepted their faults they try to validate it or generalize it. They would yell at me so harshly when I was little till now that I developed a very terrible anxiety issues, it just hurts I feel like crying seeing others with their parents being happy and having a great time, but yeah.

I did the quiz twice once for each parent like someone in the comments did and I got 9% for my mom and 0% for my dad and honestly it sounds about right, my father only cares about my grades and constantly tells me I'm a failure and my mother doesn't care about my grades and puts me down when I tell her how I feel, one time when I told my parents I was suicidal my mom yelled at me for not being grateful and that other people have it worse and that I'm selfish, and my father just ignored it and a few months later told me that in europe in the middle ages there were fanatics that self harmed to feel closer to got and told me I was as stupid as then and made fun of me even though I don't believe in any god and I self harmed because I wanted my parents to notice my pain and they didn't notice until I told them a year later. So yeah pretty accurate quiz

0% Nice, not at all surprised with the way they pile responsibility on me and blame everything on me, even if they are the ones making the decisions, they will still always say that its my fault and now that Im older I should understand better. Yet they treat me younger than I actually am, and also throws out the fact (many times, at least 4 times a week) that Im overweight and ugly and useless and no one cares about me, talking about how my friends are all gonna leave me because of my physical appearance. My hobbies like video games, music, and reading and other indoor hobbies they hate me for, talking about how its all useless and I should exercise and do sports more so I wont look so fat. Also talking about how exercising and doing sports apparently helps me socialize and make friends (like I totally dont have like, 10) and criticizing me all the time, talking about how low my grades are and that I need to make it to one of the Ivy League Colleges (My averages are about 97) or else I wont be happy and rich and instead Ill be poor and sad.

I got 0%. The thing is, they act super nice and friendly when I'm not talking and don't notice when I leave the room, but when I say something they immediately start to yell at me and they say 'I don't like the tone of your voice' or even 'I hate your voice' and other similar phrases. Every day they end up yelling at me at least once. It's not like they don't love me, it's just that they are in bad moods sometimes for no reason. They don't have work one day, and I bring my math homework they have assigned to me over the summer because I have a question and suddenly I'm hit with; 'why are you so stupid?' Or 'shut up' or even 'this is so simple, why don't you understand?'. This has been happening since I was eight when I couldn't achieve something in a sport I am about to quit. I don't know what to do.

I got a 0% but I don't think this is entirely true, while yes there are times where they're good/nice to me, but overall most of the time they don't care about what I like to do, and intentionally give me things to do to take my time away from me, and it's the most trivial things that they could do instead, especially when they're just sitting on their asses all day doing basically nothing, and now in moderation that is a good thing, for teaching responsibilities and what not, and if that's their reasoning, then I don't disagree, but I don't 100% agree either, I'd say my score should've been more of a 10-15% at most, bc my parents don't respect my decisions for anything and yet they wonder why I'm always annoyed/mad with them, they don't care about how I feel and whenever I do something that they don't like, whether by accident or not, they don't ever bother to see which one it was, and when they're mad about something that has nothing to do with me, they yell at and punish me, a lot of the time through physical contact, which can range from a simple slap to an outright beating

i have 0% .. yes .. i mean i am not really surprised i had a boring and strict childhood but my parents were there at the start but after i was about 7 they weren't there for I had to learn by myself and my sisters, I always think about my future when I'm only 14 !!! I should be outside exploring the world, having fun and living my life as a main character but no .. I take care of everyone but not enough for myself, I have to cry to go to sleep sometimes , in fact i'm well enough i don't have to complain i have a roof over my head, something to eat, sleep in a comfortable bed .. but i just want some attention for once. When I "accidentally" broke my shoulder when I was between 5 and 8 years old (I can't remember) for once I felt like I was surrounded with a family. as soon as I returned to college for the first time I lost a lot of friends and I don't want to work because in the end it is useless to know all this because we all die one day or the other and it will be useless. My parents believe that all this is just whims when I feel full of things that I had to learn to hide over time, I have a lot of angers issues and they believe that it is because I am not not raising well while guess what? it's you who didn't bring me up sometimes I don't feel any more but it's good to talk about it from time to time i just wanna go out in the rain and run around with my bestfriend and just laugh till I can't breathe and just be so happy and it never end.

I got 0% and Im not really surprised. My parents fatshame me (Im 110 pounds). This has caused my siblings to follow and call me fat. Im going through puberty since Im 13 and there are very little pimples on my face. I have the small type of pimples and about 6 of them. My parents complain about my face and compare them to people on tv or on their phone and to my siblings who still havent reached puberty and therefor have no pimples on their faces. Moreover, when I choose a more relatable comparison, like classmates or my neighbor, they yell and lecture me for comparing my self to others. This happens to with my grades. Im in 8th grade and Ive always had an A and A+ average as my grades and has never gotten below an A-. Yesterday my mom told me that As werent even good and that A+ is good. Meanwhile, my siblings have Bs and are being encouraged to make that into an A-, A, and A+. And when I compare myself to my siblings grade wise or any other way wise, they yell and lecture me. When my siblings bother me (Ex: Were in a car and my sister starts to open her legs and take up the space and I get mad at her), I am told that Im a bad sister and that I should let them as that doesnt hurt me. However, it gives me pushover vibes and I hate that. I also have anger issues, something that my dad has. My dad also hits me and my siblings as disciplinary actions, but he underestimates his own strength. This has made me prone to physically hitting someone out of anger. Now when my parents stand near me and make a fast movement, I would flinch and move out of the way. And whats sad is they dont understand their wrongdoings. when I try to talk to them, they get mad at me for blaming them for nothing. I have a teacher that lets the students be on their phones. My classmates would text their parents. But it makes me want to cry when I see them texting their parents like their parents are like their best friend. I really shouldnt be jealous but I am cuz my texts with my parents are stri

%14 I'm not sure what I was expecting this house is really boring and toxic. me and my brother are always in our room we don't like spending much time with our parents it feels like I'm being attacked everytime I do. I can't open up to either of my parents and they barely know who I am. I barely know them. Growing up they never encouraged me doing anything they don't believe in me if anything they only lower my self esteem. I was born for a selfish reason my mom was abused by her narc manipulative mom and tbh those traits have leaked out on her i only exist pretty much to give her a sense of meaning and impress her mom i cant think of any other reason. I'm not saying they're the worst parents of all time I just don't feel like I belong anywhere especially not with them I definitely don't feel secure

I got 18% and honestly am not surprised. My dad has serious anger issues since his father was verbally abusive growing up and he a really dysfunctional family. It's always his way or the highway no in between. He makes me feel, dumb, stupid, and like I can't do anything right. If I say something that offends him or am on my phone for too long he blows up. He'll count to ten yelling the numbers really fast. If I don't get to my room in time he'll chase me up the stairs grab me and drag me to my room. He'll proceed to shove me against the wall and start screaming in my face. One time things got so bad he put his hands around my neck and tried to strangle me. Lately, he's always in a bad mood and just one little thing will set him off. He hasn't been in the best of sorts since he lost his job due to his poor health and is trying to recover. My mom, also, is stressed out by this and every little thing she doesn't like that I do, she'll lecture me for hours. If I try and get her to stop she'll get more and more annoyed and keep going. Eventually, she'll drag my dad into it and my dad will explode from our arguing. She also blames me for not having good enough communication and that if I did we wouldn't argue and keep having these problems. Yesterday, I remember getting in the car from a retreat after school and I forget we were supposed to take this other girl home. We haven't driven her in awhile and I had forgotten. My mom started flipping out and asking where she was. I told her I wasn't sure and I was sorry. She proceeded to tell me I only care about myself and I don't think about anyone else. She said wanted to get home and threatened to not drive me home the next day.

Both my mom and dad are terrible. It's been a hard time as a teenager for me. They both always find ways to insult me. Seriously because of them I am suffering from anxiety . They both have snatched away my phone from me and they let me study for atleast 14 hours. And not do anything else. No matter how much I study it is always less for them. They have also distanced me from my grandparents. What to do I can't talk to my grandparents. I have to bear it all with them. O God give me power.

I got a 4% and I'm just disappointed. My mom currently has my phone set so If I even have it open it goes off after 30 minutes. This makes it hard for me to be able to contact my choir instructor and do my classwork on my phone. Ever since I became a teenager my mom has bashed punishment after punishment for things I've done or not done. Not too long ago she got mad at me for not cleaning up after my sister when I just woke up to get ready for school. I understand her getting frustrated that I had clothes on my bedroom floor but I'm not in charge of my sister and her clothes. And yesterday my mom was getting upset that I wasn't talking or just looking serious when we went out for my great grandmother's birthday.

I got 20%. It's mostly my dad that is the I guess you could say toxic one.He always has something for me to improve one and something I should do better which makes me feel bad about myself.He also makes fun of me with "jokes".My mom on the other hand is a pretty kind women.But she is very moody a lot and has said some "opinions" on me wanting to be transgender. Idk I don't really talk to my parents because they always have something to complain about me.

I got You think your parents are 0% good to you

Your relationship with your parents seems to be very bad. You think they don't care about you, or that they mind their own business more, but you should know that a child is a parent's biggest treasure. If your parents are harsh, maybe you should try to calm things down a bit. I know it's not your fault, but maybe you can go talk to them and tell them why you don't agree with their way of behaving with you.

It was supposed to be my grandmother because my parent divorced when I was like 3 years old

0% Sounds correct to me. I got Leukemia as an adult and lost everything. Moved in with them. Hard to appreciate it from mental, emotional abuse. Probably could go to physical like when I was little.

Me loosing everything is my fault!!! They treat me like I'm waiting attention!WOW! But hey, I'm not homeless Find the Blessings where you can. God bless