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I am 13 years old. My parents threaten me and continuously ground me for the littlest of things. As of right now 3:34pm I have strep and phenomena and I got yelled at earlier today for not helping my dad outside! Is this a joke? Im on my bed crying and they want me outside in humid Texas head working like their slave when I want to get better. Last Thursday I had practice and I had just started getting sick instead of my parents telling me to walk it off they told me to come home and do chores your grounded because you didnt do the dishes last night! And my parents are always telling me Im big and unhealthy and fat every time I eat a snack or a piece of comfort food is in my mouth! For my height my weight is very healthy and because I am so insecure Ive developed a eating disorder no one makes comments on my weight other than them. Some times I want to run away like my older brother did. Twice! Third time he was kicked out at 16 my oldest brother moved in with his mom at 15 and my big sister moved out as soon as she hit 18. Ive talked to all my siblings and they all feel the same. Sometimes my parents joke around saying we deserve to starve and die and we are stupid and horrible. I secretly have been paying for therapy and going to it on fridays for my depression and anxiety I just tell them Im going to the football game at our high school. When Im gone my parents never send me a text and ask me if Im ok or if Im having fun or to simply call to say I miss you. If you read this far thank you and feel free to share any comments I wish you all the best!

Hi, My name is Emily Valdez, i am 14 years old. My parents are arguing about my grades because some of them are F´s but i don't know why, because i do the work and my teacher doesn't care. My dad has anger issues because he lost his dad when he was my age. My mother is trying to calm him down right now because dad is angry at ME because my grades are low. My mom sent me to my room to be careful and work on my assignments for now until later when dad calms down, I have depression because i just lost my hamster who was named hamy. My sister was kicked out of the house for no reason. My oldest brother was abused for his actions for taking good care of me when my parents left for food. This was very strange for me because this happened just like 11 months ago and my oldest brother got so abused for the littlest things i have ever heard from his room! My oldest brother though, he just passed away by suicide, turns out that he had depression for a while, then decided to just do it and they would forget him. I found out because he left a note before he died, it said ¨My little sister, Emily, I hope you will remember me, also take good care of my gaming systems, please, Also, tell mom and dad that they will not remember me anymore..., Love, your oldest brother, Michael.¨ I was so sad that i ran away from home and my parents never found me because i left a note telling them that they can forget me and just leave me be. Now, i live with my cousins, and they just love me and we like to hang out and enjoy every moment with them.

I don't know if they hate me but, they would always say "We don't have have any favorites" or "We do this because we love you." Ever since I was little, I always worked at my mom's store and I would always see my friends having fun, going out laughing a lot, sometimes they would go to my house a s ask my mom that they want to go with me and have a small talk, she would agree but when I get home she glare at me, so that's why when my friends would ask me to go out I would just say No. Ever since in grade school I was always on top of the class but it seemed like nothing to them. Everyday after school I would directly go home and work and I wouldn't even complain, I don't even argue with them I don't shout at them I always treat them with respect but it seems that all the good things I've done for them is nothing. When they see me sulk or smile, they would always say "What's wrong with you today?" and I don't know what to do. When we go to the mall I've always wanted to buy a book but my parents would say next time but when my younger brother would want to buy something they wouldn't say anything and would just hand him the card, they would always say "Buy things that are important or something educational..." I would always wonder why I can't but my brother can. Also when I make a mistake or I can't hear what they said they would always shout at me or hit me with anything they can grab onto saying "You might be considered smart in school but here you're the dumbest" I don't argue, and I can't cry, I don't cry because when I cry the thing they would say is that I'm only good at crying and would hit me again. I've always wanted to sleep in my room but I can't they won't allow me, I sleep in the floor in their room, I don't even have a phone at my age a few weeks from now I'm turning 18 but I can't leave. Also 2 years ago I got diagnosed with an unlikely disease and stopped going to a regular school, now I really want to go back to school even if it's just an online sch

Everytime they 'said knowledge is the most important thing and will carry that out through your life' i know school is important and all but when there something major they always treat that im some kind of slave to them. I'm 13 years old and i only want to play games for awhile not because of fun because of my creativity the game im playing is releasing my imagination and they would say the game is bad for you but no. i want to leave my parents and go somewhere that i would be really good to share my imagination I hope someday my parents will understand the game more.

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My parents know I have really bad fears, but instead of trying to help me cope, they just purposely throw me in situations and make me deal with it myself. For example, I have a separation anxiety disorder and it's pretty bad. In fact, I can hardly be in my room by myself. I call them a lot during the night o get them in there with me, but one night they just decided to ignore me. And, because of my fear of the dark, they turned off every light in the house and took away what I call my "security light". (like, a security blanket, but it's a light I turn on when I get scared.) Another time, I was gasping for air and could hardly move. My dad had some heart and tried to help me, but my mom told him not to. It was so scary. I don't like them.

I'm 12 and I'm not sure how I feel about my parents. They always tell me to clean up my messes, and I understand that, but they don't clean their own. I am saying that they're hypocrites and I feel like they hate me. Last year, in the summer, my mom noticed I was cutting and thought that was because I felt like I blamed myself for my mom and dads divorce. Yeah, she couldn't have been more wrong. I actually didn't even know why I cut my wrists. She said that she would take me to a psychiatrist and did she? No, of course not. My mom said that she observes me and who I do and stuff. Well this year, I got depression and started cutting again and she didn't even notice. Yeah, great job at "observing" me mom. Anyway, here I am now, telling my problems to the internet

Well Im 16 years old . I believe that my mom in some form cares about me but my father he either dislikes me or hates me .

My father constantly yells at me for no reason or tiny things . If I accidentally get a B on a test I get yelled at if I do anything wrong even the slightest mistakes. With my siblings its clear that my father favors the 9 year old . O yea I have 3 younger siblings. With the 9 year old shes spoiled by father. And she can do wrong in fathers eyes . And my parents are constantly upset at each other . My siblings make it so Im late to school everyday . My father every time I try to talk to him he tells me to shut up but then he complains that I barely ever talk ,maybe if hed stop yelling at me then Id talk more. My father constantly says he can do everything better then me for example Im using the microwave and he then says that he could use the stove at my age. And Im just basically making something that involves using the microwave like father just let me use the microwave . I get bullied by my younger siblings and the kids at school . My sibling call me things such as ugly or fat when Im not very. At school I get called fat and I get made fun of because of the way I talk and how my eyes look apparently . My older half sister died in a fire when I was five and I havent gotten over it . I have social anxiety no one knows about it . And I have panic attacks almost every day in the morning when I am getting ready for school . I also have insomnia and I barely get enough sleep if Im lucky I get up to 4 to 5 hours ,and I have a hard time going back to sleep sometimes I get up at 1am in the morning and just stare up at the ceiling .And the 7 year old leaves claw marks all over my arms until she draws blood from my arms . I got abused by my grandmother for years and shed chase me up and down a flight of stairs with a knife . My grandmother favors the 11 year old for some reason . I have a hard time talking in public due to my social anxiety . And

I am 12 yrs old and I got 90% on the test. That's how much my parents hate me. My dad would always yell at me for not remembering a homework assignment. He would never believe me whenever I say, "I've never seen it!" or "They posted it just yesterday! I haven't seen it!" My dad would also accuse me of lying whenever I'm telling the truth. One time my brother and I were playing Roblox. My dad asked if we were playing with other people in the game. I said yes since Roblox is an online game, while my brother Said no. My dad said I was lying but I never was. So he started to hit me with his belt to the point that I had to say I was lying while I was telling the truth. My mom is the person to never solve something by herself, She would always confront me then tell my dad about it. And when my little sister came everything went downhill, I was said that needed to protect my sister while I'm doing homework, and My brother is using his phone. My parents have never said 'congrats' whenever I do something or get something amazing.

My parents hate the person i love and i cry all the time and they saw me and him kiss and flipped out. Now they treat me like s---. My mom hugs me and says i just want the best for you. The best for me is me to be happy. Now the guy i love wants to be secret for 4 months and our 1 year is December 11 and we secretly date thats over our 1 year. Ive already have enough troubles with girls liking him. If we tell everyone we arent dating i feel like hes gonna loose feelings or something. I cant do 4 months. Its all because of my parents. I dont know what to do. Im half tempted to commit,move out and never come back,or leave everything move towns and start fresh.

i dont know anymore but one day i was super stressed from online school and my mom get angry for me for stressing out. i swear i didnt lash out or anything but maybe it was shown on my face. She told me that i dont deserve to be stressed out because i dont even work and bring money to them. She said she might hit me because of that. I was really sad and lonely at that time but the anger just burning inside while i need to keep a straight face because i was so afraid of getting yelled at by her. I am the oldest among my siblings so every time there are something wrong she always directed her anger towards me. It seems like she turned a blind eye whenever my siblings misbehaved but whenever i did even a little mistake she would lash out like crazy. I dont even have my own room and the only time i can cry was in the bathroom. I have no one to talk to because i dont have friends and my siblings hates me. Whenever she looked at me she always criticize my face because yes i admit i am really ugly. We are always short on money so i cnt afford braces. She also called me ugly. I dont know what i did wrong but what to do if my life arent getting better?

My dad is so awesome. We get along really well. Well,most of the time. My mom,on the other hand,hates me. She never actually says it,but she uses other words to describe that. I'm trying to figure out if my parents secretly hate me or if they are using me to show me off. Does anyone know a way to figure that out? If I make the smallest mistake,she yells at me,then gives me a huge,over the top punishment. I even tried running away multiple times,but first I got scared and then I got caught by my parents. I guess I'll have to wait a little while to try again. I am also somewhat abused by my parents. I get perfect grades in school,but my parents don't really care. I'm pretty sure the only reason my parents sent me to day camp for a week was to get me away from them. Whenever they yell at me,I yell back. They think they're better than me only because I'm just a kid. I always get answers from my parents that are like: "because I said so." or: "I'm the adult." I so and totally wanna live with my BFF.

So here I am,telling my problems to the I internet. I wish far better for you. Bye!

So today my mom took us all outside and my little brother and when he shoots the basketball and he passes my mom and dad would holler but if I run a suicide across the basketball court they on the phones or talking and my mom always says Im a failure so I cry Im only eleven and its not just that . If I make a mistake she scream hollers and tells all her friends. But if my little brother makes a big mess or mistake she says oh , its nothing . This has been going on since four years ago. If I get to be in charge of her when shes older Im putting her in a nursing home

My parents say that school is the most important thing in the universe but as soon as I come home I come home I have to watch my little brother deal with my annoying little sister who does everything in her power to make my life miserable and clean the whole house. When I am done it is time for bed and I havent even gotten started on my mountain of homework but I am just so tired mentally that I just want to watch anime and read webtoons so I do that and work on my homework for about an hour because after that I have to turn my lights out or I get in trouble.

I got yelled at because of my report card I have to get 90 Obove and my mom didnt like me to put the plant in the sunlight she said why are you playing around with the plants and about the report card I got a 57% for science but I havent started science((Im going to start science next week for this year) do you think my parents hate me ?

Your Result: Your parents dislike you

They dislike you, but deep down they still love you, unconditionally. You fight, disagree a lot, but in the end you still come together as a family, it sucks but it's better than hatred.

Not surprised, but it still hurts...