Cavernclan
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Thread Topic: Cavernclan
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(Sorry Joker, i know it's bad, but i'm sort of still in denial...)
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(yeah....well, omegy, people grow up and leave this site, one day we all will slowly leave this site and other young ones will come one...)
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(Well, Finchy, there's more than that to this. YOU haven't been on for a long time. Even when you said you were back, you just disappeared again. You don't know what she's been going through. Hell, I barely know anything about what she's going through! But I do know one thing: She ain't coming back, no mater how much we want her to.)
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Finchy, what's wrong with it that i need some more time to process than you? Things like this don't just make me feel sad, but really hit me at the core. Have you ever heard of DABDA?
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@rave sorry my mom said i couldnt have my computer until my math grade went up to a b, it is currently an 81. I never get b's or c's so thats why it took me a while.
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Well anyways, Lucky, if you ARE reading dis, just Sorry that you can't come back on, and we'll miss you very much. Hopefully you'll be able to come on soon!)
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DABDA is how people deal with a loss.
Denial. They refuse to think it's true
Anger. Raging, mad at the world
Bargaining. Say they'd do something drastic just to get the person back. This is where I'm at.
Depression. Living becomes pointless, and they fall into depression.
Acceptance. We know we can't do anything to help, and we accept that person is gone. -
I think i'm entering anger, i've been angry at everything today...)
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I was in Anger yesterday. )
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Guess you're moving faster.)
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Yeah... well, time for me to send Lueh another email and pray she replies. Brb.)
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You have her email!?)
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She posted it here a while back. The first time she left, I sent her a few emails. She came back not long after.)
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(Slipping back in denial...
If you haven't already sent it, please tell her i hope she'll be happy with whatever she chooses.) -
I sent your message to her.)
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