A crime against yourself%
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macoooo JuniorTo strengthen the factors that will prevent one acting in accordance with ones desires. This is achieved in a number of ways, including the following:
1 Strengthening the faith in ones heart and strengthening ones relationship with Allaah. This may be achieved by remembering Allaah a great deal, reading Quraan, thinking of the names and attributes of Allaah, and doing a lot of naafil prayers. Belief strengthens the heart and soul, and it helps one to resist temptation.
2 Fasting, as taught by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he said: O young men, whoever among you can afford to, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and in guarding ones chastity. Whoever cannot afford it, then let him fast, for it will be a shield for him. This is addressed to young men, but it also includes young women.
3 Strengthening ones resolve and willpower, for this will make a young woman able to resist and control her desires.
4 Remembering what Allaah has prepared for righteous young women. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
Verily, the Muslims (those who submit to Allaah in Islam) men and women, the believers men and women (who believe in Islamic Monotheism), the men and the women who are obedient (to Allaah), the men and women who are truthful (in their speech and deeds), the men and the women who are patient (in performing all the duties which Allaah has ordered and in abstaining from all that Allaah has forbidden), the men and the women who are humble (before their Lord Allaah), the men and the women who give Sadaqaat (i.e. Zakaah and alms), the men and the women who observe Sawm (fast) (the obligatory fasting during the month of Ramadaan, and the optional Nawafil fasting), the men and the women who guard their chastity (from illegal sexual acts) and the men and the women who remember Allaah much with their hearts and tongues. Allaah has prepared for them forgiveness and a great reward (i.e. Paradise)
[al-Ahzaab 33:35]
5 Thinking about the lives of righteous women who guarded their chastity, such as Maryam, whom Allaah praises in the Quraan (interpretation of the meaning):
And Maryam (Mary), the daughter of Imraan who guarded her chastity. And We breathed into (the sleeve of her shirt or her garment) through Our Rooh [i.e. Jibreel (Gabriel)], and she testified to the truth of the Words of her Lord [i.e. believed in the Words of Allaah: Be! and he was; that is Eesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary) as a Messenger of Allaah], and (also believed in) His Scriptures, and she was of the Qaanitoon (i.e. obedient to Allaah)
[al-Tahreem 66:12]
And thinking about the immoral, fallen women, and comparing between the two types, for there is a huge difference between them.
6 Choosing righteous companions and spending time with them, so that they can help one another to obey and worship Allaah.
7 Comparing the effects of immediate fulfillment of desire when a girl responds to haraam, which is followed by loss of pleasure and all that is left is regret and sorrow, with patience and striving against ones whims and desires, and realizing that the pleasure of conquering ones whim and desires is far greater than the pleasures of enjoying haraam things.
8 Seeking help by calling upon Allaah and asking Him for help. The Quraan tells us the lesson to be learned from the story of Yoosuf (peace be upon him):
He said: O my Lord! Prison is dearer to me than that to which they invite me. Unless You turn away their plot from me, I will feel inclined towards them and be one (of those who commit sin and deserve blame or those who do deeds) of the ignorant
So his Lord answered his invocation and turned away from him their plot. Verily, He is the All Hearer, the All Knower
[Yoosuf 12:33 interpretation of the meaning]
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macoooo Junioryes dear brother
It's not about enjoy
It's here for something harmful to both parties
- That the pair will follow the wrong way
Will forget the natural way
Which leads to thinking in new styles more deviation
- As well as the wife will be damaged physically
And forget the natural place for pregnancy and childbearing
And lost the natural instinct in the way of sexual deviation
also
This level of worldly and Shahwani
But you did not think of the consequences of religious
If this seen something important and useful
This law will entitle
But
Does not do the prophets and messengers this
This is forbidden and dangerous and detrimental to human beings
Orders of allah is not against human nature
But
Regulation of the wishes and desires
thank you
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Yup, religion's still bull-s---.
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macoooo Junior\\\\\\\\\\\\\\
In the end, I reached the following conclusions:
1- Attraction between the sexes can occur in any circumstances, no matter how much men and women may deny that. The attraction may start within the bounds of shareeah and end up going beyond those bounds.
Even if a person protects himself (by marriage), he is not safe from the snares of the Shaytaan.
3- Even though a person may be able to guarantee himself and he works with the opposite sex within reasonable limits, he cannot guarantee the feelings of the other party.
Finally, there is nothing good in mixing and it does not bear fruit as they claim. On the contrary, it corrupts sound thinking.
1) The traps of Satan include:
a. Kufr (disbelief).
b. Innovations.
c. Following ones desires.
d. Taking and giving Islamic judgments without knowledge.
e. Stinginess and fear of poverty.
f. Anger.
g. Extravagance and negligence.
But God gives to man the blessings and forgive his sins.
Not a shame to go wrong , but a shame that insists your fault , so it divides scientists among the illiterate and ignorant , a big difference , illiterate man its container is empty, accept anything that is placed in it, educated illiterate is very easy, man pot itself empty accept you for anything , but a fool is which filled its container fallacies , and relationships are incorrect , not confirmed by reality , so there is great hardship in to convince him of the right , is stems from the rules is incorrect , the relationships are not confirmed by the fact, fool is the one who knows , but it does not work , including teaching , or is the one that involves concepts , and relationships , and perspectives wrong or incorrect ,
Allah Subhnah wa Tal mentions in the Holy Quran, If any one does evil or wrongs his own soul but afterwards seeks Allahs forgiveness, he will find Allah Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
(Quran, 4:110)
(Every son of Adam makes mistakes, and the best ofthose who make mistakes are those who repent.(Reported by al-Tirmidhi, no. 2499,
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O young people! Whoever amongst you can afford marriage, let him marry. Whoever cannot afford it, let him fast, for it will be a shield for him.(al-Bukhaari, 5066; Muslim, 1400)
Fasting reduces the effects that desires have on young people. But, in reality, with respect to fuqahaa' who analyzed it, the obligation of marriage depends on the person you are.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
With regard to marriage, people are of three types:
1. Some fear that they may fall into haraam things if they do not get married. Such a person has to get married, according to the majority of fuqaha, because he has to keep himself chaste and protect himself against doing haraam things, and the way to do that is getting married.
2. For some it is mustahabb. This is the one who feels desire but there is no danger of his falling into haraam. It is better for him to get married than to devote himself to naafil acts of worship. This is the view of ashaab al-ray and it is the view of the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them and their deeds).
Ibn Masood said:
If I only had ten days to live and I knew that I would die at the end of them, and I had any desire to get married, I would get married, for fear of fitnah (temptation).
It was narrated that Saeed ibn Jubayr said:
Ibn Abbaas said to me: Have you gotten married?
I said: No.
He said: Get married, for the best of this ummah are the ones with the most wives. Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5069)
Ibraaheem ibn Maysarah said: Tawoos said to me:
Either get married, or I will say to you what Umar said to Abul-Zawaaid: Nothing is keeping you from getting married except impotence or immorality.
3. who have no desire, either because they were not created with any desire, such as one who is impotent, or they had desire but it has disappeared due to old age, sickness and so on. There are two opinions:
(i) It is mustahabb to get married because of the general meaning of what we have discussed.
(ii) Remaining single is better for him because he cannot achieve the purpose of marriage, and he would be preventing his wife from becoming chaste by marrying someone else. And he would be harming her by keeping her for himself, and he is exposing himself to obligations and duties that perhaps he cannot fulfil, and he is distracting himself from seeking knowledge and worship with something that is of no benefit to him.
Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
The apparent meaning of the words of Ahmad is that there is no difference between the one who can afford it and the one who cannot. He said: a man should get married and if he can afford to spend he should spend, and if he cannot then he should be patient.
This applies to one who is able to get married. As for the one who cannot, Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allaah enriches them of His Bounty [al-Noor 24:33]
The best people in Taqwa were Prophets (Peace be upon all of them) and most of them we know have married. We cannot be better than them.
Narrated by Anas bin Maalik (radiyallaahu 'anhu),
He says: "A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) asking how the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) worshipped (Allaah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said: 'Where are we compared to the Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) as his past and future sins have been forgiven.' Then one of them said: 'I will offer the prayer throughout the night for ever.' The other said: 'I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast' The third said: 'I will keep away from women and will never marry.' Allaah's Messenger (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said: 'Are you the same people who said so-and so? By Allaah! Indeed I am the one who fears Allaah the most amongst you, and the most pious of you; yet I fast and break my fast, I pray and I sleep, and I marry women. So he who opposes my Sunnah is not from me." Reported by Imaam al-Bukhaaree in his Saheeh.
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said:
The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: There are three whom Allaah is bound to help: the mujaahid who strives (in jihad) for the sake of Allaah, the mukaatib (a slave who has made a contract of manumission with his master) who wants to pay off his manumission, and a man who gets married, seeking to remain chaste. Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1655), classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi
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Dear bro,
It seems you're preaching us and not just putting your views. -
tl;dr
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macoooo Junioryes dear brother
The goal here is to achieve interest and broaden the horizon for all
And stay away from substances harmful to health and community
thank's for sharing
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Why is crime against society as a whole and not just a direct victim ?
Yes my dear brother
This is a wonderful question
Crime against the person considered against society
This is a result of the implications on the victim
And how to deal with the community after injustice
Aloofness and lack of trust in people
And most of it
Sons of adultery no guilty to them
Father criminal
Mother victim
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macoooo JuniorWhat now?
We may ask, what comes next, after this discussion on the matter of mixing?
Its about time for us to recognize that no matter how we try to beautify the issue of mixing and take the matter lightly, its consequences are bound to catch up with us, and the harm it causes will have disastrous results for our families. Sound common sense refuses to accept that mixing is a healthy atmosphere for human relations. This is the sound common sense which made most of the people included in this survey (76%) prefer working in a non-mixed environment. The same percentage (76%) said that mixing is not permitted according to the shareeah. What makes us sit up and take notice is not this honourable percentage which indicates the purity of our Islamic society and the cleanness of its members hearts but the small number who said that mixing is permitted; they number 12%. This group, with no exceptions, said that mixing is permitted but within the limits set by religion, custom (urf), traditions, good manners, conscience, modesty, covering and other worthy values which, in their opinion, keep mixing within proper limits.
We ask them: is the mixing which we see nowadays in our universities, market-places, work-places and family and social gatherings, taking place within the limits referred to above? Or are these places filled with transgressions in terms of clothing, speech, interactions and behaviour? We see wanton displays of adornment (tabarruj), not proper covering; we see fitnah (temptations) and dubious relationships, with no good manners and no conscience and no covering. We can conclude that the kind of mixing that is happening nowadays is unacceptable even to those who approve of mixing in a clean atmosphere.
Its about time for us to recognize that mixing provides a fertile breeding-ground for social poisons to invade and take over our society without anyone ever realizing that it is mixing which is the cause. Mixing is the prime element in this silent fitnah, in the shade of which betrayals erupt, homes are wrecked and hearts are broken.
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macoooo Junior--
The vast majority of young people in the West now
Meets a girl and take her to the room
Without ready for anything
Only satisfy sexual desire
Therefore
Numbers infected with the disease on the rise
Brown said some young people's beliefs "magic" is based on that they can not cause carry their friends could have stayed a lot of relationships that did not lead to pregnancy, what makes them more and more involved in unsafe practices.
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Dude. Is YouTube your only source for information?
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macoooo Juniordear
More reality and facts
NoHaters | Talk Islam | youtube
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So it is?
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Youtube confirms that youtube is ultimate!
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macoooo JuniorHe converted to Islam in 5 minutes youtube
Sodomy
Heinous crime
Prohibition
You remember the Prophet Lut, peace be upon him
You can read all about those events
The punishment and destruction to the village as a result of sin
My article
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