I just found out my friend is bi-sexual
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Thread Topic: I just found out my friend is bi-sexual
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And I'm not suppose to know, and he doesn't know I know. It just feels awkward for some reason whenever I talk to him. I don't know why. I've kind of come to this understanding of where I stand about that stuff, but now I get a rael life example. He's like 50-50, and I even know who he likes. Should I just not say anything? I don't know why it feels so wierd, it's not not I have to worry about him liking me, because that would be uber-awkward. But to think half of him is in the totally opposite direction. I mean, I've known the guy he likes since kindergarten. Any opinions?
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When you break it down really its just like knowing your girl-friend liking a guy,but she doesn't know that you know.The only diffrence is that he's a dude liking guys and girls,its nothing really odd when you just set it down,love is love y'know.I wouldn't mention anything unless its brought up in a conversation,by the way.It could be awkward for him if you just bring it randomly.
I myself am bisexual,friends with a straight girl and a gay dude.Our orientation is never really mentioned though. -
VoicelessVoice NewbieThe thing is if he does turn out liking you, just say you want to remain friends. So I'm guessing he's been gay huh? :3 That's cool, just keep him from Ivy.
Don't feel awkward about it. It's strange at first to learn big secrets like that about friend's, especially when you never would've guessed. But we are who we are, and I wish the world could be accepting of it. But sadly not everyone can. Be accepting of what your friend is, and if things get real awkward, try to work it out. It's a lot of work, but worth it in the end.
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VoicelessVoice NewbieAnd listen to sick. It's best for him to tell you on his own. And don't try to squeeze it out of him, some people can actually catch onto that trick fast. Just give him time to tell you when he's ready to.
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:) Thanks guys. I was just having a hard time letting it sink in. I've known him since kindergarten as well, and it's always awkward at first when people change.
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VoicelessVoice NewbieThat's life. People have to change in order to grow in spirit. Spiritual change I suppose. ^-^
Like Link has to grow spiritually in Evan's game in order to beat the villain.
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