Alright, fair enough, GTQQ gave me a bit of an eye opener :P
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Thread Topic: Alright, fair enough, GTQQ gave me a bit of an eye opener :P
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Even though I have been preaching that there are people who are naturally sensitive and they can't help it, and that people's problems are people's problems, yourself can't dismiss it because pain is subjective. Just because something one sees is "weak" to be devastated over, doesn't mean they're in any less pain than someone who is going through a lot more in their life. I believe in all that. I used to not to actually, I used to believe that everyone should grow a fucking backbone and stop whining about every single thing, wah wah. Looks like I kind of made a transition from asshole to Too fucking nice. xD
And yes, I am quite an ass and sometimes barge when my opinion isn't wanted, that's hypocritical, yes, but everyone is a hypocrite. I try not to be, and I should probably try harder, but remember I'm an ass, and I'm sorry for any offense I may have caused, I don't intend to be that way, especially to Leah and Tara.
I know I've been a whiny bitch recently, but I'm a girl :P what do you expect? Do you expect me to be superman and not let anything hurt me? I acted like nothing hurt me for 8 years, of course I'm going to blow up one day and become like this :P Sorry if you perceive it as whining, I blew up, and I can't help myself.
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I've never said I got it bad. I said I was feeling like crap but that's it. Consider this an apology for being whiny, hypocritical, and 'rude'.
(@GTQQ I do already make adult decisions :P I've already started planning out my future, my finances, what kind of a job I can get, apartments to rent, how much University is, what goals or stuff I need to give up in order to make it in life. etc.)
And to everyone else: You can't expect everyone to be completely emotionless, things have to hurt sometimes, whether it's small or big, if complaining makes them feel better about it, then why the fuck not? -
I agree completely. I do that all the time. People usually tell me to suck it up or say "whatever" but what the hell? If letting it out online will take off some of the real stress, go for it. I have no problem with it. Even though some of the tiny problems annoy me, they have the right to let it out.
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I agree. Everyone of us has a right to blow off steam on here.
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Thank you. :D It made me feel better that you all listened to my problems. I agree with you on everything here.
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Ting, I dont know what to day.
While I agree that pain is based on perception and that it depends on what the person feeling it has to base it off of, I also feel that if someone is so sensitive that they cant fuction well in society, or under a mild amount of stress or critisism, then telling them to grow a pair and to get over it is very appropriate. It's true, some people dont understand massive pain simply because they have never percieved it themselves. But that doesnt give them an excuse, if anything seeing someone who has it worse them them, should in itself, give them confidence to get over themselves.
Personally, I determine it like this. If the problem is trivial or you know they'll get over it, they need to snap out of it. If it's something that is physically or mentally abusive, life altering, or permanant, then they deserve pity. -
I respect people who CAN'T get over certain things, because some people aren't really wired that way. Some people need a 'GET OVER IT.'
some people wouldn't be able to for reasons unknown. -
there is such a thing as a subconcious attention addiction. Alot of the people I know who CAN'T get over little things, are also very extreme in social situations. They're either, overly social and full of drama, underly social and full of drama, or obsessive about love or shit like that.
Overly social and full of drama is simple. They enjoy the attention and cant get enough of it.
Underly social people usually dont get very much attention. So when a situation comes up where they can get attention, they want to milk it for as long as possible.
And the obsessive people, are litterally crazy. I'm not kidding. There's medication for that. -
I was talking about naturally overly sensitive people o.o'
That's a nice tidbit to know...I think I know a couple of people who fit in one of those categories. -
naturally overly sensitive people are very rare. They've either been sheltered their entire lives or they're one of the crazies I already mentioned.
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define sheltered? People keep using that word and I can't find an actual definition for it.
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sheltered. People who when they were younger were kept away from difficult situations and were never given 'tough love' as children.
Basically people who have only ever known love and attention. People who have been spoiled and overly pampered. -
Ah, I always thought sheltered meant people kept from society and everything and knowing nearly nothing about society. I was wrong. xD
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well, society and difficult situations kinda go hand in hand. It's the same thing really.
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I knew nearly nothing of society until grade 3 started ._.' I don't think I count..xD
Then again I'm not overly sensitive :I
Zalgo? -
I got out of private school in 4th. .__.
I am nowhere near sensitive.
And zalgo is that sneeze thing you saw on iscribble.
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