:I I want to ask you guys something.
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Thread Topic: :I I want to ask you guys something.
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Here are my goals:
*I want to stop being shy. I can barely say "Thank you" in public without squeaking.
*I want to be more outgoing. I want to be able to do what I want in life, without being scared of what other people will think. Honestly, sometimes I feel like I'm scared to live because I'm so... well, you know. You know kind of how I act on here, at least towards like Alice and Ting (Vege and Carri)? I want to start acting like that in real life xP
*I want to be motivated like I used to be. When I was younger, I was a good drawer... why? Because I was so motivated to do it all. Now I'm just down on myself constantly and I really think it's taking away any skills I have...
I probably didn't explain those too well -_- Oh well.
*Motivated
*Outgoing
*Not afraid of life
^^^ Those are my goals, basically.
But do you have any tips or advice on how I can reach these goals? :\ It'd probably make me a lot happier if I could reach them, lol. -
Well...I dunno if you really want me to answer, but I'll try:
Confidence! Confidence is key. One trick, that might make yu look crazy but not as much when you're all alone is find a mirror. Keep an open mind and look at yourself, pay yourself compliments. Remember that nobody's perfect and disregard your imperfections, they don't matter.
Second, change your way of thinking. It;s much, much harder than it looks, but it's worth it. One way is, when given an oppotunity that you want to take but are too scred, try to tell yourself "What have I got to lose?" And, if you're worried about what people will say, tell yourself: "10 years from now, will anyone remember this? Do people go to sleep thinking about this? NO. So, I might as well try."
Think positive, also. I know, a lot of people will say that it's bad to have a big ego, but they're a bit in the wrong. Yes, it's bad to show-off to others, but to yourself? No. Take a sense of pride, feel accomplished. Think of ways that you are great, but try not to compare yourself with others. It's almost impossible, but can be done.
The way you think can change everything. Think in a way that will bring along confidence, pride, self-esteem and positivity. The motivation, outgoing-ness and all will come with.
Hope I helped, though I kinda doubt it. :)
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TBK: the only person who is standing the way is yourself.
Motivated: What do YOU WANT in life? What is it that YOU want to do? Think about that.See yourself achieving that goal. Push yourself to get up and start making the steps to it.Just see yourself there.
Outgoing: you dont sound very confident. And your shy. There's nothing wrong with that. You need to start believing in yourself. You have the right to percieve your dreams and talk to people just like anyone else on this planet. Dont be afraid of people and thier words. Look people in the eye, speak more louder. Dont be afraid of what comes to you
Not afraid of life: Dont be afraid of it! Remember your still young, so you need to build your concept of the world. But when you do, become stronger and more determined. Grab life by the horns.Dont care what anyone says because its your life. NOBODY else is living your life for you, so make sure you do what you feel comfortable doing.
MY MOTTO : Dont give up even if it hurts. JUST DO IT!
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I can't help but see my old self in you.
Well Katie, you seem like you have the right mindset and attitude already, so that's good.
I can't explain, bit by bit, what you have to do to achieve your goals, but what I can tell you, however, is be patient, realistic, open minded and a risk taker. -
Motivated: Listen to something that gives you that push. If you ever need motivation, you can always talk to me, hun.
Outgoing: Believe in yourself. Just Lose yourself every now and then. Tell yourself 'I can do it! Gonna do it!'. Get up, take a deep breath, and say what you wanna say. Do what you wanna do.
Not Afraid of Life: We all gotta live this Hell and it's hard not to fear what's ahead. But remember, you're young. You've got time to think and make decisions. I wish doesn't come true with magic, you gotta make it happen. Make that wish and use hard work and time to make it real.
In the time I've known you, you are one of the handfull of people I know that's got a strong spirit and soul. Believe in yourself and what you are capable of. Be yourself and overcome your fears. Overcome everything that causes you pain or discomfort in anyway. Work hard and kick life's ass.
Let your heart speak not your brain. -
So I just typed like a whole paragraph of what I was going to say, but it sounded lame so I erased it xD
Kaitie, what others are saying is true. I know you can fufill your goals in life, just have faith. Believe you can do it. Know that you're achieving and getting one step closer to the big thing. Sorry if what I'm saying sounds weird or stupid, I know I'm not much help since I'm not really a confident person. Like I keep saying and what other people are saying, I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT.
Don't wish for it, WORK FOR IT!!!! -
Thanks guys :)
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Anytime. :3
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tongue AdvancedDon't worry about being shy or whatever. It's just who you are, don't change it. The people who get to know you will see how much personality you have, and that's enough. Motivation? Well basically I just think you need to figure out what you want, and don't let anyone tell you that you can't do it.
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What they all said.
And remember, if anyone says you can't do something, or that you're too fat, too weak, too ugly, etc.
Their ass is jealous of the s--- coming out of their mouth. :D -
here's some motivation ta keep with ya
everyone else said what i was thinking, don't worry too much about this, just believe yourself and you can do it x) your dreams are your wings, they take you higher than the clouds you dare to jump. -
@Appa: xD I've seen that somewhere :P
xD
I hope everything works out, Kaitie :)
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