Help
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Thread Topic: Help
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Okay, so my first year in 8th grade is coming up and that means that I will be going through more changes and puberty and not saying that hasn't already happened it's just going to get more serious throughout 8th grade to high school and even the rest of our lives. But I just see everyone actually growing up and dating people and liking people and I'm just a background while people are the stage. I feel so pressured to be with someone or to be somebody else and sometimes I do feel pressured to act somewhat different online which kills me inside so much because I just want to act myself which is hard. But, everyone is with someone, and I just WANT to be alone but I feel pressured to be with someone. Help?
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Going to be honest with you straight up. Middle school is the most confusing part of your journey through school. Don't take it too too serious. You're gunna make friends, lose friends, struggle ect but you just gotta tough it out until high school. If you don't want to be with anyone....don't be. At the end of the day all that matters is that YOU are happy. Don't do things just to appease your friends or those around you. Wait until you're ready to be with someone and don't rush that's all I gotta say.
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You know greenapple, i felt pressured my entire childhood in the same way you do now. It cause me to make a lot of bad decisions growing up, and like saph said, obviously the goal is to stand up for whats in your heart and allow yourself to be guided by your own principals, but what ive found out about my own self since becoming an adult that might also help you, is that i always felt pressured one way or another, not because others wanted me to change (althogh to be sure, people will ALWAYS try to pressure you into one thing or another) but that i felt i needed a change. I needed to be a person other than the one i was. So i sat down one day and asked myself honestly, what i actually wanted.
And that may be all ittakes for you to realize that you have to be your own man/woman.
Ask yourself what you want. And dont tell me or anyone here or you S.O. if you have one, because their opinion on it is irrelevant. Just find your desires and you will find your center
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