I don't understand....
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Thread Topic: I don't understand....
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Why do people cut themselves? Why? When something bad happens they just sit in there bedroom and start cutting themselves with scissors and knives. How does that help you? It doesn't help you. Cutting yourself shows others that you are weak and helpless. It's only hurting you more than you are already. Put away those scissors and knives and stay strong. Stand up for yourself from the ones who are causing you pain. Don't just sit there and say "oh well, what's there to live for? i'ma take a cut. it'll relieve my stress." When people see you cutting yourself, they start thinking that they are more stronger than you. So now they can start doing more bad things to you because you are more weaker than them. STOP cutting yourself and think about what you are doing...
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Some people find it to be a release to whatever problems they're having. I hate when people make the assumption that they're just weak and helpless, because they could quite possibly be strong, yet they cut as a way to deal with it. And I absolutely despise the way you put that, "oh well, what's there to live for? i'ma take a cut. it'll relieve my stress." That was a bit offensive, I believe. But besides the fact, their are many people who live a happy, amazing life where no one screws with them, but they still may feel the need to do it.
A lot of people know that it's bad for them and want to stop, and can't. Sometimes, it's like a drug for the person. Compare a self-harmer and an alcoholic. They may both be facing similar problems and they may both show the same signs of withdraw when you take away what they used to relieve themselves. I'm not pro self-harm, but you have to understand what's going on before you even say anything.
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