I hate how my shyness is mistaken for rudeness
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Thread Topic: I hate how my shyness is mistaken for rudeness
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I'm really shy >.> its painful lol. I can never get out the words I need to say, even online chatting is hard for me. Whenever I want to explain something I explain it all wrong and I offend someone or they get the wrong idea but I did not mean it that way.__. I'm not much for conversation either...I'm the awkwardest person alive I swear XPP
So what I end up doing is just not saying anything to anyone new(hell even when I do they don't like me) :/ but then I come off as douchebag.I'm totally comfortable around brandon and like two friends but everyone else is a no >.> I feel like everyone hates me gah.It sucks because I'm 21 and I still haven't grown out of this problem...
It really gets in the way of my job though, I had to work on the floor today and it was extremely packed and I was nervous .I've been working here for a while now mind you.I usually prefer working in the back for this reason.Just glad I got out early today XP -
I'm in the same boat. It's not that I don't like you, it's that I think you don't like me!
And holy crap I offend people really easily, and I'm too emotional for that s---, so I get offended too, and it doesn't end well. -
Did you try seeing a counselor or something? I used to be very shy, then I did some stuff and now I'm just kinda awkward. I've improved lol.
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I hang with shy people. :D
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Bob, are you high? Or drunk? lol.
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Neither?
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I was seeing a counselor about a year or two ago but I stopped going because she wasn't really helping me much with my problems, I mean it worked sometimes but I always slipped back into it.
I hear people say they like shy/weird people but to be honest its a lot of those people who are rude to me or just ditch me for other people :/ not saying everyone is like that but y'know.
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Shyness in itself isn't something that's in your nature. It's something you get from the environment. I'm sure many people like the reserved and somewhat shy people, but this shyness will really restrict you from expressing yourself and looks like that has caused you problems. Find a better counselor maybe?
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i hate it when people ask you a question and expect a certain response. why ask the question if you know the answer idiot?
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Not sure who you are talking to, but all the people in this thread are far more respectable than you so get the f--- out.
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I was thinking of looking for a new one, so yeah :P And yeah exactly >.> this shyness just ruins relationships or any possible chance of starting relationships with anyone. The people I know now are just very understanding I suppose, but even they can get a little impatient from what I can tell, I also hate holding them back from doing anything social so they can be with me,them knowing that I hate things like going out.
But thanks again -
This thread wasn't really looking for a specific answer though(Never asked a question either)...it was more of a venting type thread or just something.Maybe someone could relate? I dunno.
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Jade, honestly I would happily be your best friend, and you would either love or hate me for it. I'd drag you out in public and make you feel just like everyone else. I even have a secret method for doing so.
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I wouldn't hate anyone for being my best friend :P Oh well that would be interesting, lol.
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