Barberbob here to settle a few things and offer some advice.
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Thread Topic: Barberbob here to settle a few things and offer some advice.
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1. Although I do not believe in God, atheists can be (and usually are) annoying as religious idiots. The only time I argue religion anymore is in response to others who brought it up. There is nothing wrong with healthy debate. But starting a fight looks poor. So keep your beliefs or lack of to yourself. No one wants to hear it.
2. You are "friend-zoned" because people construe your excessive emotionalism and want as taxing and a detriment to them. People want to lose themselves and feel secure when they're with you. And for most of you, the people you're interested in are emotional and neurotic enough without having to babysit your emotional bulls---.
3. Never tolerate your lover's bulls---. If they are emotional and upset, distract them; pick them up and dance, tell a story, take them for a walk. If that doesn't work, leave them alone. If it never works, dump them. And remember, infidelity is never justifiable. A person who uses you to rescue them, will eventually use someone else to rescue them from you.
4. Emo and self-pity are narcissism disguised as depth, and this is why people resent your woe-is-me bulls---.
5. Contrary to popular belief, depression is not a painful experience. Depression is a numbing strategy usually developed in childhood as a way to keep you safe from the consequences of your anger. An emotionally healthy person can allow themselves to be angry without reacting to it. When you numb yourself from real pain (anger, you block out the joy in your life and become depressed.
6. Cigarettes stunt emotional growth. Smoking seems fun because life at an early age is relatively easy. But look at a smoker in their 40's and tell me they look happy.
7. Japanese culture is not amazing. Japanese culture is oppressive and stifling and that's why Japan has one of the highest suicide rates in the world. Weeaboos have Peter Pan syndrome.
8. Spend time with other people of the same sex. Spend time with a hunting party, camping, sports, clubs, beach, pub, mall, ect. It creates a sense of belonging, well-being and a safety in this world. It is also how we make connections.
9. Boys, the older you get, the more your market value increases. At your age women are over-valued in society. By the time you're 30 or 40, it will be reversed. (No I'm not talking sexism, calm your feminism.) Men will be more sought after.
10. Do not have a child with a person unless you have been with them for more than a few trouble-free years. I'm not talking no fights at all, but nothing severe. If you have a kid with someone you fight with, be prepared to support a family that you will NEVER be a part of.
11. Sometimes your genitals know things better than you do. If you can't get yourself aroused by someone, that is your subconscious telling you that they are not right for you.
12. Never marry someone unless they love you more than you love them.
13. Your impending sense of doom is nothing but emotional residue - there is nothing wrong. Even when something is wrong, nothing is wrong. You deal with problems as they arise, no big deal.
14. Honor is an abstraction, never expect another to understand.
15. Never immediately accept the words of others. If it can be researched, research it. If it can't, evaluate it with your own personal evidence. -
*claps* Damn.
I have learned never to fight with a smart person. -
wise words of wisdom
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Weird, I could have sworn that I've heard all this before somewhere.
Must just be my imagination, eh? -
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Oh I totally plagiarized most of these. Reworded them to fit a bit and changed a couple, but totally taken from elsewhere. I am not denying that.
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So to comment on number eleven. I believe that fully and have actually dumped a few people over that.
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