it's always nice to know
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Thread Topic: it's always nice to know
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That one of your closest friends is in fact ashamed of you for being a certain way and is afraid of other people judging them for knowing you.
...Really? That's a pretty big f--- you to my face right there. -
that is harsh of your 'friend.'Why is he so ashamed?
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She, actually.
Because I curse like a sailor. She's afraid of people judging her for knowing me because of the way I speak.
I don't curse like that, when I do, it's because i"m incredibly angry. What she doesn't understand is that what other people think is their business, not any of ours, and if they happen to think I'm f---ing messed up, let them. And if they think she's messed up for knowing me, then so what? You can't control what they think.
I just...agh. The way she spoke made it sound like she was just scared of everything. -
Right,she.
She probably wants to fit in.By the way,has she ever cursed?
I understand being angry, happens to me at least once a day because of my really short temper,but that's besides the point.Everyone has their own way of getting their anger out.Some of the ways may not be very good,but that's the angered one's choice,no one else's.Here is something:is she usually timid when it is out of her comfort zone?Does she try to blend in with others?
She is probably one of those people that want to have a 'normal' life. -
has she ever cursed?
She curses about as much as I do when we're f---in' around.
Is she timid? Yes. However, she's a theatre student, and a singer. She's constantly putting herself out there. Blending in is bad for someone like her. but sometimes, yes.
Probably. But if you ask me, if you're friends with me and do weird s--- with me and understand my reasoning to some things, you are far beyond normal. This girl fits in the spectrum of more than half of what I've mentioned. At this point it's denial if she's trying to be normal. -
Well,she's rude for her to feel ashamed.How long have you been friends with her?Maybe she thinks the stunts or whatever you guys do is a bit crazy,and she's trying to change?
In what way is she timid?
Maybe she thinks you are slightly crazy or something and is hiding that thought from you. -
We've been friends since beginning of high school, and we graduate next year. We're art buddies (this is saying a lot, art is a very personal thing)
I really doubt that. We don't do very many 'crazy' things.
She's timid in the way that she doesn't like talking to people in fear of them judging her.
Okay, everyone thinks I'm slightly nuts, it's nothing out of the norm, it's possible but unlikely that that is the reason. -
Alright,here's what I think:She trusts you,and thats why she curses in front of you.She acts because it's not showing her true self,as she does in front of you.She doesn't like being judged,and she probably thinks if she hangs around someone that curses out loud in front of others,angered or not,she will be judged badly.
This is what I think until more evidence proves otherwise. -
I know her true self. I'm actually the closest person to her because of how much we share with each other. From what I can gather, she hates being judged because she was judged and bullied in her childhood, now she fears it. I understand that completely, but the way she goes about it isn't the best, and hurts those who truly care about her.
I don't curse out loud really loudly in front of other people, just friends. If not then I'm practically british in the sense that I'm so damn 'posh and polite'. -
Sorry,I just know so little.
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Well f--- her. From what I've seen you're awesome Ans hilarious. ^^
She's probably jealous or something like that. -
Your friend does indeed suck.
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e-e Disloyal friends make me sick. You deserve better.
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You tried to help, dino, twas appreciated. for the most part you got stuff right.
And guys, I spoke to her about this later and we resolved it. T'all good nao.
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