Help. Me.
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Thread Topic: Help. Me.
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Okay, well in the 8th grade, we go on a class trip to Washington DC. My friend Rebecca told me that in 4th grade, I promised her I would be her roommate. I honestly don't remember saying this, but if I promised her, I don't want to go back on that promise. So then I started becoming closer to Macie. Macie is now my best friend and wants to room with me. I know things about her that no one else does, so she does not feel comfortable rooming with anyone else. She said she would not go to Washington if she can not room with me. So today, we went to GUidance to ask what to do. I told guidance that Rebecca said I promised to room with her. I don't remember saying it, but I don't want to go back on my promise. I also said that Macie will not go to Washington if she can not room with anyone else. Guidance said that we should ask Rebecca to room with someone else, but we really needed to figure it out ourselves and she couldn't tell us what to do. Rebecca asked what Guidance said. So, I asked her if she would room with anyone else. She said she does not feel comfortable rooming with anyone else. I asked her if she would room with Jailene, because I know she is comfortable with her. Rebecca said that she would also not go to Washington if she could not room with me. We have to write who we want to room with on a piece of paper. I told both Macie and Rebecca that who I room with is up to me now, because whoever I write down will end up being my roommate. Rebecca claimed that that was not fair. So, I told her that I wouldn't room with either of them. Macie and Rebecca would room together and I would room with Jailene. Rebecca ran got up and walked away, pissed at me. I tried to follow after her, but all she would say is don't talk to me. I don't want Rebecca to be pissed at me, but I want to room with Macie for Washingotn, because she is my best friend. So who should I room with for Washington? And how should I get Rebecca to stop being pissed at me?
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Ignore them both, they'll come to their senses eventually
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I can't ignore them. They're my two best friends. Macie is fine about it. Rebecca is overreacting and being a b---- and I don't know what to do and I know this sounds lame but I've lyed in bed so many nights staying awake thinking about this and I've shed way too many tears for such a small problem.
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Tell Rebecca how you feel and say that you are going to room with Macie. If she is really a friend, she'll understand
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I can't tell her anything right now. SHe won't listen to me. She just walks away. She won't understand. She ahndles every f---ing probem like a f---ing baby!
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Then leave a note on her desk, if she doesn't read it you know she's not really your friend. As my aunt says "If you try to please everybody, you'll end up loosing yourself."
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Damn that sucks, Kenz. Try to explain things to Rebecca, that you didn't want to hurt either of their feelings and that is why you made the desicion you did. If Rebecca was so misunderstanding of how you felt... well, that's not fair to you either. If she was a true friend, even being unhappy with the decision you made, she would understand. I would chose Macie, if she was being understanding like it sounds like she was. But I like your original plan: making them go together and you going with J. That way you don't have to pick.
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Or you can text her?
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I can text her. She won't reply. WHAT DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND BY SHE WILL NOT TALK TO ME!?!?
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I honestly get sick over this. Like I feel like imma throw up right now. Today a girl came up to me and was like it must be cool having girls fight over you and I'm just like no, it actually sucks. Because one way or another, someone's going to get hurt. Whether it's Rebecca, Macie, or me.
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Go with Macie, forget Rebecca. She's obviouslt acting like a big baby and shouldn't even be given the priveledge of being your friend
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I wish I could do that. I wish I could just go up to Rebecca and be like I don't want to room with you, I'm rooming with Macie. But I kow she would get upset, and I just don't have the heart to do that.
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Well... I always bug people until they finally do talk to me. And besides, it was a late post so I didn't read your other posts.
And Macie sounds mature and like a true friend. Rebecca is fine, and just needs some space. Who knows? Maybe she'll enjoy the trip even if you aren't her roomate. -
Well, I don't know how to help you Kenz, to be honest. It's really your decision. Rebecca will survive without you. Macie will also. It's your decision. Think of it this way: Who would enjoy your company more? Who would you have most fun with? Who is being the best friend?
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Macie is a true friend. I don't want to talk to Rebecca right now, she needs her space. I hate when people bother me when I'm upset, I wish they would just leave me alone. I'm assuming she feels the same way. So I'm going to let her cool off and she will come to me when she's ready.
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