A thread for me
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Thread Topic: A thread for me
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no...i love food. plus my family likes to fed me...alot...thats why im all...big
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Okay. Look at it from a different perspective. You have a guy that loves you for who are, and so does your family. So why worry about anyone else has to say? You can still eat food that you eat now. You just have to do it in moderation.
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my family are the ones thats calling me fat ._.
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Soo, your family likes to feed you alot, but then call you fat? Thats ignorant of them to do.
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i know right. its stupid. and absolutely none of them want to change what we buy to help me eat right. yet they keep saying i need too. but then they feed me junk and complain cuz im not losing weight and then they makes jokes and call me fat :/ thats another reason why i wanna be thin so they'd leave me alone
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Im at a loss of words on that one. I have never heard a parents were family member call another one fat or make jokes. There being hypocrites. Sorry if that offended you, but its not right for them to be doing that kinda thing to you.
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no its not. but if i tell them it hurts my feelings they say "well you should lose some weight than and you wont be so fat. here eat these cookies" or they say im being disrespectful and talking back. and if i walk out ill get yelled at
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You could always turn the junk food down? I mean they cant force you to eat it.
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think i havent tried that? if i do turn it down they'll be like "well you dont need to starve yourself" like seriously? i bet if i did get thin theyd tell that i would have to gain weight because then id be too skinny
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Im the same way. Like if I dont eat, then my parents think that there is something wrong with me. But there isnt. Just not hungry all the time like them. So they try to take me to the doctors cuz they think im starving myself.
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everytime i mention i wanna lose weight their answer is "well you could walk, you know if you were thin you would be able to get married and have a job. people would like you more, you wouldnt have acne and you wouldnt be so....you" blah blah...i use to like myself...but now i dont...i mean there's always something thats wrong with me. im to big, im too white, my hair isnt the right color, too many scars, i have acne...
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First of all you dont have to be skinny to get married or have a good job. Second there is nothing wrong with you. Your not to big, or to white. You could always dye your hair if you dont like it. And acne doesnt kill anybody. Everyone gets it. Heck I have it. There is always products that you can get to get rid of it. But dont go around saying that you dont like yourself. There is always ways to improce your look if you dont like it. And so what if you have scars? There not bad.
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i dont like myself deanna...i mean if xavier met me in person...like really saw me instead of a picture of my face, i dont think he'd like what he'd see...and thats what scares me. ive been rejected countless times because of the way i look. whether i try to make myself look pretty, no one can get past the way my body looks...
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Please, stop saying that. You are fine the way you are. And if noone can see your true beauty then its their loss. Dont belittle yourself. You have an amazing personality and thats what really counts. Not looks. And im sure xavier will still feel the same way abouf you.
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ima go to sleep
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