Im just randomely posting
Thread Topic: Im just randomely posting
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Just folded laundry, sitting around listening to chillstep, and generally a fat lot of not s---
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oh, but i have been talking to a cute girl lately, not entirely sure if shes interested, sometimes she acts like she is, other times not so much, im not certain if she actually enjoys talking to me or if im just annoying.
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ooooh lemme help
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I mean I am not opposed to help, but how?
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I can help you figure out how to ask if she cares for you!!
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I'm pretty sure she's been trying to tease me... like a lot, but I've been being as much of a "gentleman" about it as I can, incase I'm wrong I don't look like a perv.
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okay, let me rephrase
I can help you ask her out
is she out there? -
Yeah, she's here in VA.
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awesome! how open are you to being
well
open? with her
like putting yourself out there -
I've asked to take her for coffee a couple times, but she's been busy, so it aint been terribly easy.
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hmmm
what do your invitations sound like? -
Today for instance we were chatting and i said "Do you feel like going for some coffee?"
No response yet, that was nearly 4 hours ago. -
huh
perhaps it would be best to ask outright if your invitations are annoying her
maybe it's my anxiety talking but I'd say
"hey, I'm into you and I'd really like to take you out
I don't want to make you uncomfortable if you're not down for that, so I'd like to ask you honestly if I'm coming across like a creep" -
I mean, honestly I met her from the dating section on Facebook. So it should be understood that that is my intention.
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that's an understandable mentality
I just think it would be best to be sure your advances are welcome before you proceed, given the number of times she's apparently shot you down
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