Sakura No Hato
- Locked by Carri04 on Jan 3, '24 12:21amReason: reeeee
Thread Topic: Sakura No Hato
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happy thanksgiving to u!
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Happy Thanksgiving.
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thanks
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I'm sad. 🙃
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Huh.
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Today is our 20 month anniversary...
It has been quite a time... -
To be completely transparent for anyone new to relationships or wanting one, it has not been all laughing and romance. We've had quite a few misunderstandings, and while we still haven't fought more times than I can count on one hand, it's bound to happen at least once a year because that's just how life is. Within just this year, we did have a huge fight, but we worked it out. Giving each other space for a day isn't a bad thing, either, but has been needed. Not even into a full year of being together, there was a loss in his family and we had to figure out how to console each other instead of shutting the other out...
Within this time of being together, a lot of things happened—some of which I wish didn't—but I'm just glad to have someone to share my life with. -
LGBTQ wisdom
I'm aceflux but also bisexual. I actually wasn't interested in looking for a relationship when I met my fiance. I was in the demisexual range. As we began to talk and I got to know him, I began to fall when I thought I was no longer interested in dating. Some days, even though when we're together, I range all the way to asexual. Lately, I've been in that range, but he actually is supportive of it. Ace and in a relationship? Yes. It can happen. There are other aspects to being with someone that don't have to be sexual. Even if I don't feel in the mood for romance and such, I don't love Brandan any less. What I long for is someone to spend my life with and know at the end of the day he'll always be here for me. That is the most important thing I want from a partner, and I wish to do the same for him.
For anyone who doesn't understand, being asexual and in a relationship DOES NOT mean I'm okay when other people try to act like we're not together so they can have him. Please don't do dat. 😔 A few people have done that already just because I wasn't flirting and being clingy. Ace partners are just as valid as everyone else. It should not be assumed we don't care about our partners.
But, when I'm not feeling flirty and such, he's kind of like a best friend, but more, and I just want to be with him in life for the remainder of my time. I want to wake up and see him every day. I want to steal his covers at night and keep him up with my shenanigans. I want to comfort him when he's down and celebrate with him when he's happy. That's what I want. 🖤 -
I also want to add one more thing. He identifies as straight. Yes, he's with me, and no, I'm not straight, but that does not invalidate his identity. I don't like when people try to say he's not just because he's with me. It is his preference. You're not allowed to decide other people's preferences. Please respect that. 🙏
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I didn't sleep well...
Actually, not at all... -
Any suggestions?...
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When did I post that last thing and why???
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God I must be tired. There was supposed to be the discussion of what I could do tonight for our 20 month, then the question...
Jeez... -
Sad...
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Heart wants to be an athlete again....
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