Rav's Apology
- Locked due to inactivity on Jul 13, '22 3:54am
Thread Topic: Rav's Apology
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ok... Give me a second to start typing
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Alright. Let me start with this:
I would like to apologize for not just offending people, but with how rude I was about it.
I don't expect to be forgiven.
I had no idea that my posts would have been taken the way they were. I do not see the way people identify as a joke of any kind, and I do what I can to avoid implying as such.
I just want you all to know that I'm sorry.
I won't ask for the DNI's to be taken down, I won't beg for forgiveness.
I do not intend to offend you all, and I do not WANT to offend you all. -
I'm all honesty, I don't know how to reply to that apology because it appears to focus on what you didn't mean to do rather than explaining that you realize the depth of what your posts did and it doesn't explain how you'll make an effort to do a better job in the future.
I don't know if this response sounds unforgiving, but I'm just trying to explain why I don't know how to take this apology. -
I'll continue this when I can gather my thoughts.
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Oh. You weren't done. My bad.
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it's fine.
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[[bumping while I write it all out...]
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As somebody has been harassed by several people myself, simply for who I am, I know how it feels to be treated like an "outsider".
I don't understand anything about the community I offended, I can only try to. When I had made the first post, I was not trying to imply that it was good to be homophobic OR transphobic. I realize that many of you were made uncomfortable by the idea that I was, and I shouldn't have acted the way I did.
And as for the post today, I hadn't considered the joke coming off as making pronouns out to be a joke, plants, animals, etc. I apologize for sounding like a broken record, but I didn't mean to offend anyone here. -
Again, I do not expect forgiveness.
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I will do what I can to avoid doing such things again.
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I have nothing else to add.
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Neither do I. I really don't know what to say.
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Hmmm
The fact that you've done this before is irritating. You can be sorry, but how about showing some improvement instead of talking about it.
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