New World
- Locked by breadgirl69 on Apr 7, '22 4:42pmReason: .
Thread Topic: New World
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Good night! :)
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Good early morning gtq! There was a lot of chaos going on yesterday and I would like to apologize for any trouble that I may have caused. But I would also like to say that if you see me as a dumb Christian and nothing else, I will stop talking to you and you should do the same for it is better for both of us. Anyway, yesterday I was probably a little harsh and off topic and I felt like I hurt some of you. All this stuff is just confusing so I would like to ask y’all a question. This is not meant to be rude or anything, but, to the lgbtqia community, why? Why would you want to become something that people will only argue with you for? Not that arguments are bad, but why would you want them? I am kinda tired of arguing myself but I don’t need y’all to be different. I just feel like not talking about that stuff and talk seriously about the world around us. I am not a hater, for the final time, and I have explained that in my first post on this thread. Also, why did you choose to become lgbtq+? I just am asking these questions not to harm but to get genuine answer, and if you can’t give me those, well then, it’s sus ig. You guys, everybody is so unique and interesting and awesome, and part of the reason I came on this website was to learn about other people and to make some friends because I do not got any real ones in real life, except for maybe 2, but I have not talked to them in weeks to months. I just want you guys to know that I love you and want you to not feel like I am forcing you to choose. It is your choice, and I want you to know that I won’t support your community, but that doesn’t mean I don’t support YOU. You are not your gender, in the same way I am not my Christian. Anyway, have a great day and God bless you all. God loves y’all. Bye! :)
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I don't want someone who finds this topic sensitive coming in here first so I'll try to explain as a perry neutral party.
I know that this might be something contrary to your beliefs, but most people don't think being gay is a choice. There's even such thing as a self hating gay. People who dont want to be gay but really can't help it. That's because although it may be suppressed by your culture or religion, your gender expression or sexuality aren't things you just decide for yourself. I promise you a lot of gay people aren't just out here trying to make it harder on themselves
I'm with you in saying that some of the things said yesterday were kinda harsh. I definitely think that some people probably disrespected your beliefs and made you feel bad but unfortunately they probably felt like you were doing the same to them regardless of if that was your intention or not.
I can't speak for everyone's feelings. I can't change how volitive the topic is for many. I'm sorry it's negatively impacted your experience here and you feel less accepted because of it.
I hope moving forward both you and the other users can just be more respectful and if it's going to be a point of contention, like you said maybe just avoid the topic all together. I won't shame you for your beliefs but if others disagree I'd recommend not telling them your beliefs because a lot of LGBT people deal with people who genuinely are trying to hurt them so they try to avoid anyone who disagrees with it. It's not your fault, but just try to avoid it. -
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I did agree that everyone needed to chill out, and people ARE entitled to their own opinions, but there are just some things we shouldn't say especially in front of the people we're thinking it about.😖 -
Ok! I agree. I think that none of us are hating eachother and this is just a big misunderstanding lol.
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I agree with you. I don't think you're actively trying to hate or spread negativity. I can't police others choices though. If others chose not to associate with you because of your beliefs that is their choice. I know you weren't trying to make anyone feel bad. It's just a sensitive topic for many people.
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Also, I didn't choose to become something people will argue with. Did you know that ever since I was born and before I identified within the LGBTQ community, people only argued about me for existing? There are always people who hate you for being you, but LGBTQ receives a lot of hatred because it's "not traditional".
I didn't choose that gender wouldn't fit me. I didn't choose to have an interest in guys and girls and sometimes not feel much of am attraction to anyone. The way I view myself: people change, and we may not understand it at times, but I shouldn't live my life hating myself for it.
In a way, this question of "why we choose to be something everyone hates" is like asking "why did you choose to be born (whatever your ethnicity is)".
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"Why do you choose to not hate yourself?" -
I agree with you both, as well, but I'm just telling you what it sounds like when you ask this.
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I know it must be super hard for you to feel like no one's in the corner as well. I personally know that there's quite a few people on this site with beliefs similar to yours, but you will never ever hear them mention them because they just want to be accepted and realize that sharing their personal belief doesn't help anyone.
I know several christians on this site but most of them keep to themselves. I won't out them but if you ask around I promise you can find people with similar values to your own so you don't feel quite so alone. -
Ok! I was never trying to offend anyone by asking those questions and I am sorry if it felt that way, that is just an interesting opinion I heard a while ago.
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#PeaceLoveAndPlants
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Words to live by 🌱
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I got it from the YouTuber mumbo jumbo lol -
Anyway, back to the silliness 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
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I think there should be a private message feature, where only certain people can see the messages except for the mods, you know, to keep it safe. Share your thoughts if you want to
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