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Thread Topic: Were gonna have a good day
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it sucks it actually sucks
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the way some girls will hateee on other girls who aren't insecure
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as somebody who spends so much of their time trying to make sure that people feel safe around me, its crazy when people have an issue with me
like genuinely wdym because i put everyones needs over mine, will go out of my way to help somebody even if it hurts me, and people will hate me for it?
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im literally fine with people disliking taylor swift, but when people completely hate her and their only reasons are because she writes too many songs about boys is actually insane
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like we get it ur insecure and can't support a successful woman for the life of you.
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me explaining how asking someone if they like taylor swift can tell you so much about their character
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ok let me explain
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When asking a girl:
I feel like some girls will switch up around guys and so when they're asked if they like Taylor, and the guy is present, they'll hate on her because they feel like that's what the guy wants to hear. Anywho:
a) The girl says that she likes Taylor Swift, and it's pretty simple there's not much to take away from that.
--> If you ask her why, that could tell you more about the girl because maybe it's something mundane like liking her music, or something deeper as in being happy that a woman is doing well in the music industry.
b) The girl says that she doesn't like Taylor Swift, and when further questioned about it, she says that she doesn't like her because she's overrated, overhyped, overplayed, or something along the lines of "she writes too many songs about boys"
--> A lot of the stuff above can be opinionated, but a lot of times I feel like these girls will bring up things that aren't true just because they want a reason to hate on another woman. Unless they have very valid points, like specific examples (and true) as to why they dislike her, then their response shows that they're possibly insecure. Because a confident and mature girl wouldn't put another girl down because she's successful, and wouldn't judge the content of her music, and also, a secure girl would not switch up in front of a man just because she feels as if her answer won't satisfy him.
c) The girl says she doesn't hate or love Taylor Swift
--> Very simple and probably a mature answer because most people either loathe Taylor or adore her, and to be in the middle shows that the girl is secure enough to not hate another woman, but also just might not like her music -
For guys I feel like it's different but it says a lot when a guy at least respects Taylor Swift. Because I think that by default, a lot of guys are surrounded by people that don't respect or like Taylor, which impacts their own opinion. If they shame Taylor for things, then they're probably immature and will shame you for being confident or successful.
If they at least respect her, or like her, then it shows that they don't feel threatened by successful woman and are probably mature. They also probably don't care what others think about them, because they've chosen to respect a woman that a lot of men don't.
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its not even about taylor herself it's about the fact that shes a successful woman and how people react to that fact tells a lot about them
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i loved the book Boys in the Boat but i'm not loving the movie so far
i haven't finished it, but i think the cast is really good and i like the way that they color graded it
only issues is that it lacks the depth that the book had and sometimes i feel like im just watching another sports movie that's just trying to tell the story of a team without actually going into the stories of all the people that make up that team -
and what was good about the book is that it gave a lot of context and dived into each character and i think it elevated the book from a decent sports story to a really beautiful and inspiring one
and so the movie is good if you compare it to other sports films like Miracle and it tells the story of the actual team and races well, but i like it when stories are dramatized slightly
or just filled with more tender moments bc i appreciate it when a movie is incredibly thoughtful and has moments that actually make u wanna cry -
i feel like instead of being like Miracle, it should be more like Awakenings. bc awakenings was based on a true story but they added a disclaimer that they made it more dramatic and emphasized some things, which tbh j like more bc it's more emotional and impactful
bc im sure in boys in the boat the actual people irl went through a lot and it means so much to them but sometimes the only way to convey that to an outsider who has not had that shared experience- is to kind of warp the story a bit -
so for accuracy yeah but not really for the emotional and inspiring part of the book
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i'm just saying i feel like im emotionally mature so why can't i find a guy who's mature too like tf i'm looking i don't see any 🥽
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