Criticize me
- Locked due to inactivity on Feb 15, '21 3:54am
Thread Topic: Criticize me
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come on yall : (
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Sometimes uses humor when you're talking about a serious issue concerning yourself. Being sad is no joking matter :(
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Thank you for the criticism : )
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Ur mom gay
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i do actually mean for this thread to be serious tho -
I'll do it ):
Sometimes I feel as though you allow yourself to indulge in the darker sensations and feelings of life, rather than actually try to combat them. It is easier to you, to give up. Understandably though, those sort of feelings and things are hard to escape from but I wish you would try to care for yourself more, even if it's just something small. In those moments, I see you say similar things to "I know I should be doing that, but I probably won't." I wholeheartedly believe one day, you will be able to overcome your struggles, even if it takes a lot of time and hardships along the way, or random bumps of darkness when everything seems to be going right, but yeah
I also think sometimes you will rush in to defend Jill and dote on her, or nod your head to whatever she says, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but I also dont think she needs people rushing to her side or agreeing with her at every moment. But in saying that, I also don't think you're the only one who does this so shrug -
oh s---, you're totally right on the first one
yeah, i think you might be kinda right there. imagine getting criticized for the same thing you criticized someone else for lol. as far as agreeing with everything i feel like i just tend to genuinely agree with her most of the time tho.
thank you so much for the in-depth criticism : ) -
imma give this just one bump
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I guess this is really subjective- maybe it's a good thing in other people's eyes. It bothers me that you always feel the need to play devil's advocate. I understand the importance of seeing other perspectives, which is why I'm hesitant to call this a flaw, but it often seems like there's a clear cut right and wrong and you still empathize and try to reason out the side that's wrong. That's the only problem I have with you, and honestly, it's probably just a personal problem of my own.
My only other problem is the self-harm. I wish I could help. I know I'm probably one of the last people you want to trust with your innermost feelings, but if you need to talk, regardless of anything that's happened or been said, I'm here for you. I just want you safe. -
I definitely see how that can be seen as a problem. I think that understanding why some people have such backwards beliefs is the first step to getting them to change which is why I'll usually still play devil's advocate even when it's clear cut wrong. I can't say for sure if that's the right thing to do but I personally feel like it helps
Thank you for the criticism : ) -
drekk, you really don't seem to think very highly of yourself, but i truly believe that if you tried to be positive, you would actually feel positive :)
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that might've seemed a little condescending~
you don't see your true value (which is a lot) and don't seem to try :( -
Thank you : )
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