So I don't know if creating a new thread was necessary for
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It's about pronouns and me
Long ago I hated the whole idea of it I thought it was just a way to divide people more
Then I became more open to it
Then it's started applying to me in a weird way.
Basically I don't really have a major identity nor is it a big problem to me but I will say I don't identify as something specific at least whenever it comes to the public.
If someone wants to call me mail so be it if someone wants to call me female so be it because the way I look at it. I just want people to call me whatever they see fits on me. Now as far as what I see myself as when looking at it from a non biological perspective and a emotional perspective there's been time and time again I've been told that with the way that I've acted lately I seem to be feminine in a way. So the way I see it is maybe I seem to be more female and if someone wants to call me by female pronouns so be it because I can see exactly why they would do so.
Same goes for male pronouns if someone wants to call me by male pronouns then so be it because I could see why they would do so because that's what they're used to.
I'm moving over to the other side of the country and I want to clear up as many things as I possibly can before I do that. I've become more open-minded due to the fact of me rejecting both of my terrible father figures. Also trying to get away from a certain person who has ruined my family entirely.
So in a way with rejecting my childhood and everything because it's the most healthy thing for me to do I decided a lot asked to change and I want to get as far away from my old self as possible and that includes emotionally and mentally and what better way to do that then adjust myself to society in a way
So I'll gladly accept whatever pronoun you throw at me because I don't mind it even if it's not biological because that stuff doesn't matter anymore. Part of being my biological self has led to problems and I'm only just now getting away from it. So I've reached a point where I'm a new me.
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Best of luck to you. Thanks for telling us.
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Good luck, d_h! You're always welcome here and as Sun said, thank you for letting us know.
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Thanks means a lot
And while I'm here apologies for my past actions if I somehow managed to hurt anyone. Even though a lot of those people I don't think uses this site anymore.
Another note is I go by a different name now or at least a different first name. And that name is Avi. It's probably one of the only things about me that I extremely prefer because I eventually got tired of my old name and I'm trying to negate the use of it as much as I possibly can not that I have anything against the name but I'd prefer if people would just start calling me by this nickname that I have embraced. Better history surrounds it.
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